Less Flouncing, more Adulting

[terribleturnip]

We all know that someone, maybe multiple someones. The "I'm a drama free zone" people. The "I had to quit "whatever" because of the drama. I can't be friends with this person because they're such a drama queen. If you hang out at Renaissance Faires, maybe you've seen the pins: "Drama-free Zone" or some variation on that. (Of course, if you hang out

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[dreamaastrid]

So true.

I've had friends that are like that. Bitching about something constantly and I told them I'll help you fix it. Let's do A, B, C and get it done. They so didn't want that. I tell them, "Then I don't want to hear the complaining if you aren't willing to fix it" and guess what? They don't bitch to me about it again. I agree they hate solutions. And since I'm a analyst and problem solver by nature it harshes their drama karma.

Dave and I are low drama people. Our closest friends are low drama people. With the high drama people we are friends with or related to we set boundaries and/or take in low measured doses.

[warriorsway]

I ❤️ you so hard.

[im_geva]

Amen.