Comments | tasyfa: Unmitigated crap

tasyfa

Unmitigated crap

Jan 23, 2006 00:07

My day, that is. So if you're not in the mood for serious personal, keep right on going. More for my own benefit anyway; hence the cut.

( cue for venting )

personal, divorce, betrayal, relationships, real_life

Comments 11

cookie2697 January 23 2006, 04:50:59 UTC

I'm probably the worst person to say this, since I know I don't always believe it sometimes and I do it to myself all the time too, but don't do it...don't put yourself down. You're not unlovable and you're not a terrible friend. A lot of people love you. I love you, even if we're going through a rough spot, and things are sucky. Maybe friend-love isn't as self-fulfilling, but it's there, and I know I for one am certain it's what's going to get me through life. But I dunno...there it is, for what it's worth ( ... )

tasyfa January 23 2006, 05:00:38 UTC

No, it's cool here, and actually it means even more since we *are* kinda tense now. Logically I know you're totally right, and there are days when I feel all kinds of fabulous, but...today just isn't one of them. :-/ Thanks, chickiboo, and I love you right back.

cookie2697 January 23 2006, 05:10:31 UTC

Well, I'm glad I could help, for whatever it's worth. And I'm also glad I'm a procrastinator by nature, because I was thinking about e-mailing you tonight about other stuff, and really, it doesn't seem like tonight's the best night for that with the mood you're in. I don't want to lay MORE crap on you, so I'll just leave it alone for now.

Not that you need to freak out or anything. I don't think. Just same ol', same ol' I guess.

tasyfa January 23 2006, 13:24:20 UTC

Not that you need to freak out or anything. I don't think. Just same ol', same ol' I guess.

Oh cuz THAT'S reassuring, lol. <--see? Can laugh this morning. Go ahead and send when you want. And thank you again. *loves you hard*

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cookie2697 January 23 2006, 04:57:53 UTC

PS...I've got Hand Me Down on while watching SHOW right now, and that song always makes me think of you ;)

mockingbird39 January 23 2006, 16:29:15 UTC

Look, I just can't stand here and let you put my friend down. Don't make me come up there and kick your ass--you know I'll do it.

I know you're feeling better now, but I have to tell you that you are NOT unlovable, you are NOT a bad friend, and you ARE beautiful. Men are idiots. We know this. And yes, sometimes female friends get stupid because of men and don't treasure their girlfriends like they should. It has nothing to do with your or your imagined flaws.

And anyway, I love you, so there goes that theory. Pfft.

tasyfa January 24 2006, 02:13:25 UTC

*loves you back* Thanks, babe.

beelzezuk January 23 2006, 18:03:42 UTC

So I'm reading this very late but I was very pleased to read this part >>

But today is sunny and I feel good, so really, skip me now.

But hugs for yesterday and I may not know you that well but none of the negative stuff sounds right to me *hugs*

beelzezuk January 23 2006, 18:05:40 UTC

But hugs for yesterday and I may not know you that well but none of the negative stuff sounds right to me *hugs*

I could have phrased that MUCH better if I wasn't such an illiterate freak but I'm sure you know what I meant :)

tasyfa January 24 2006, 02:13:54 UTC

I do indeed know what you meant. *squishes you*