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[tastekitty]

why do people, once they find a boyfriend/girlfriend all the sudden become so infatuated that they'll do anything to see them, even whore up their oldest friends?!!! its like hmm i saw that person yesterday, and the day before, and i haven't seen you for more than an hour or so at a time in weeks, but the significant other always wins out. i know i

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[seiaidorei]

That's the most intelligent thing I've read all day. And it's a situation I know all too well (being too dependant on someone). I'm trying to force myself to be more independent, but it's hard once you've already given up half of yourself.

[king_regicide]

i think the mentality with people who always hang out with their b/f or g/f and not their friends as much is not always them deciding to cut their friends out of their lives. like me for instance. i litterally work almost everyday, its very rare that i am given a day off with out asking for one. so any free time i have i go grocery shopping or go over brian's. and every now and then i see my friends. this is mainly because brian works night shift and i normally go over his house after he gets off work around 8AM since i normally dont have to be in work until 1pm and normally if my friends aren't working its around the time i work. i doubt that you were refering to me in this post but i just wanted to say its not always intential to not see friends as often as normal when your dating someone. alot of times it's people not knowing how to divide up their time well.

[tastekitty]

oh yeah i know, believe me, i have very little extra time as well. and i do see johnny about every other day. but theres always ways to fit other people in. what pisses me off is (what set me off to make this post) when you talk to someone early in the day, try and make some kind of loose plan to see them, and then when the time comes they've already hooked up with their bf/gf and don't have time for you anymore or don't call you back. like they let what that person wanted to do that day control what they plan on doing. if i were in that situation, and i talked to a friend early in the day and made plans for later, and in the meantime johnny called and wanted to hang out, i'd tell him i have plans with someone already and either we can hang out til my friend is ready, or we can all hang out together. i'm more upset about people breaking plans than not making them in the first place. because i know i for one am horrible about making them ahead of time in the 1st place.

[djwarchild]

that is an age ol problem.
to be honest ithink we all do it.. it's the new phase ,, after a month thenthe brain relaxes.. I would assume if we all had a bf or gf we would neva notice anyone else new bf gf stage so easily.

[reality_sleeps]

oooh...infatuation that very thin line, i too before have had that confused with love...
i think you are doing well, i don't know too much about you, but you seem to be taking a very adult approach to things, and also taking it slow, which is key. it allows you not to become co-dependent upon one another which is fantastic, fuck what anyone else thinks, if you are thinking this clearly then you must be doing something right.

[rystylin]

damn girl, you have my complete admirance&agreement!
excellent outlook on it all!