*internal screaming*

[tahirire]

This is how my marriage feels this year.

Comments

[msninacat]

♥ It's a lot of work. I hope things ease up for you soon.

[tahirire]

Thanks. I honestly don't know how my grandparents have done it for 65 years. >

[kalliel]

So many hugs for you, hon. <33333 Even wet and smelling like a sewer. ;) /and kisses too

[tahirire]

Lol, thanks, I like non-conditional hugs. ;)

[dharkapparition]

Big hugs.

Totally commiserate with you girl. If he is the pelican, then turn a high power hose on him... Wouldn't that be an awesome sight? And a naughty bit of pleasure.

[tahirire]

Lol, no, it's more like he's the oil and he's suffocating me.

Which would be hot if this was a Jason Statham movie ... *cough*transporter*cough*

[dharkapparition]

OOOOHHHHHH
Jason Statham.....

Drools

Um, what were we talking about?

[lembeau]

*hugs* I have nothing constructive or helpful to say about men. So I will just give you lots and lots of internet hugs instead. *HUGS*

[tahirire]

Me either! *sigh*

Yay internet hugs though. *HUG*

[twasadark]

Oh, Lord, honey - I SO know what you're talking about. Have you ever gone to a Marriage Encounter weekend? They're awesome and quite helpful. We went to a Catholic one but I think the Episcopalian church also puts them on? Anyhow, ping me if you ever want to talk. *hugs*

[tahirire]

No we haven't, but we did council with our pastor, and that helped for a while, but he just keeps reverting back to his original position and it is driving me insane. *lesigh*

Thanks hon. :) *hug*

[twasadark]

Seeing a pastor is great, but you may need a counselor who specializes in marriage and family therapy. Believe me, I would be divorced a long time ago if we hadn't gone. It really helps. We had to go to a couple of different therapists before we found one that worked for us. We just didn't connect with the first one.

Anyhow, hang in there.