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Apr 13, 2007 12:36

new journal for a new me: mama_de_rose

and yes, i'm fine.

and no, i don't want to talk about it.

from now on it's all going to be about her and not about me. not anymore. it's too fucking tedious to have it be about me. i'll see you all on the flip side.

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emmalynne April 13 2007, 18:57:34 UTC
Kids do change the lives of those they live with, but don't try to make your entire life just about her...it doesn't work. Trust me, I was a stay at home mom for 6 years, you need time and things just for yourself or you go mad. And that includes just writing about random non-kid related thoughts once in awhile. Just because the focus changed doesn't mean you should ignore everything else that is part of life and living.

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nickitty April 13 2007, 19:03:50 UTC
i'm going to add your new journal under my new journal, nicokat, ok? xo

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carus_erus April 13 2007, 19:16:20 UTC
from now on it's all going to be about her and not about me. not anymore. it's too fucking tedious to have it be about me. i'll see you all on the flip side.

False dichotomy. Sometimes it's all about her, sometimes it's all about you, a good portion of the time it's about both of you, or whatever parts you can manage to squeeze in.

Emm's said this far more eleganty than I have though... Just don't feel you have to radically shift over to become some other person just because you have new responsibilities or are spending more time with different people. It doesn't change who you are or what you want to be.

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50_ft_queenie April 14 2007, 02:49:33 UTC
Don't lose yourself in all of this M. One of the best things you can do for your daughter is showing her that you're a strong and independent woman with a life of your own.

*hugs*

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eve_took April 14 2007, 07:05:33 UTC
I'd miss reading about YOU. *huge hugs*

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