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Group sex. It's arguably one of the most common sexual fantasies that exists, right up there with the one about your French teacher, a paddle, and a giant pot of honey. It's also one of the most fraught: How do I find people who want to have a threesome? What happens if I'm with a partner who's more into the third person than into me? What if I get ( Read more... )

Here we are, nearly two weeks into 2016, a land of promise filled with mistakes yet to be made and nascent errors still unhatched. It is customary, as the calendar ticks over from one arbitrary designation to the next, to look back upon the road traveled and ask questions like "what the hell was that?" and "how in the name of God did I get here ( Read more... )

It's probably no surprise to anyone who's read my writings for any length of time that I'm not a fan of dishonesty in relationships--of any sort, big or small. I have always championed the cause of open, honest communication, especially in romantic relationships. A great deal of human misery and suffering in relationships can, it seems to me, be ( Read more... )

As many folks who read me probably know by now (and goodness, I'm doing my job wrong if you don't!), I'm polyamorous. I've been polyamorous my entire life, I've been writing a Web site about polyamory since the 1990s, and I recently co-wrote a book on the subject ( Read more... )

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I wrote a thing over on the More Than Two blog! It talks about the new book I'm working on, The Game Changer, and a bit about how More Than Two came to be. Here's the teaser:

There is something we don’t talk about much in polyamory. Those of us who are educators and activists tend to focus only on the positive aspects of polyamory. We’re so busy ( Read more... )

Everyone's favorite source of poly wisdom, BadAss McProblemsolver, is back to take on a complicated question: "How do I handle a broken relationship agreement without Drama?"

The answer, as it turns out, can be found in Star Wars. Don't do what Luke Skywalker did in The Empire Strikes Back.

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In this new addition to the lore of Badass McProblemsolver, he offers his calm, wise advice about how to deal with feeling squicked because your girlfriend wants to have sex with another man. Check it out!

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