Comments | szara: Dave

szara

Dave

Apr 25, 2005 09:32

And when I think of it, my fingers turn to fists
I never did anything to you, man
But no matter what I try
You'll beat me with your bitter lies
So call me crazy, hold me down
Make me cry, get off now, baby
It won't be long 'till you'll be
Lying limp in your own hand
The "no-contact" order against Dave expires tomorrow ( Read more... )

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Comments 11

sweetmeow April 25 2005, 16:54:05 UTC

It sucks when people can't respect boundaries, which (it seems to me, anyway) what this is really about. I hope that you are right and he remains away of you.

inkytwist April 25 2005, 18:00:54 UTC

What's the story with Dave? Did he abuse you or something?

I'm sorry, don't worry about it.

szara April 25 2005, 18:21:29 UTC

Not a problem, I didn't know you didn't know. He was my fiance for awhile, and there were mental/emotional control issues. There's more about it in this thread at BPOI (it's in BPOIs only, so apologies in advance to those who click on the link and can't get in).

Feel free to ask me questions, I'm pretty open about the whole thing, I just don't talk about it much cause there's no need to.

inkytwist April 25 2005, 18:33:18 UTC

Yeah, I think that was a bit before I was on the BPOI, or at least a time when I wasn't as active as now.

Man, that's got to suck. I think I'm too assertive and argumentative for that to happen, but you never know. :[

crackferret April 25 2005, 20:06:02 UTC

He can't do anything to you that you don't let him. If he becomes a problem, file another order. I doubt he will, however. People like him tend to be chicken when it really comes down to it. But be mentally ready just in case.

I'm sure it'll be fine. But it makes you think. You're strong, you haven't let this beat you, and I think that's wonderful. So many women curl up and die inside rather than stand up and be strong and live life. :: hugs ::

silvernoone April 25 2005, 20:53:28 UTC

*snugs* You've got so many people around you looking out for you, now. He doesn't hold your life in his hands. It's yours. I'm just happy you left him. You wouldn't be who you are today if you hadn't.

cjun April 26 2005, 01:49:26 UTC

I'll hunt his butt down if he comes back around.

^_^

attilia_auborne April 26 2005, 01:53:24 UTC

And I'll help. *Sharpens sword*

*Hugs Szara*

goldlizard April 26 2005, 15:48:30 UTC

Count me in. His ass is dead if he tries to contact you again.

szara April 26 2005, 09:09:40 UTC

And this man, ladies and gentlemen, is proof that I have learned from the experience.