FRIENDING POLICY
FRIENDING POLICY
+ general info
My so called big&bad policy really isn't all that fancy and complicated, at all, but there are some things you might want to know. First of all, I've three other journals which are;
• hugonator for hedgehog related rambles
• zeskimo which is my graphics comm
• charming_syrai fic (and fic-rant, ex-fandom rant) journal
• What is this journal about, then?
syrainator is a mix between (insane) real life ramblings, silly fangirl squeeing (also known as fandom rants), episode reviews and other very random shit like that. I have to admit that lately I haven't had time for fandoms which is why my updates have mostly been about work issues and relationship stuff (spiced with some self-reflecting). Fandom crap lives at my tumblr blog these days.
• Semi-locked?
Some of my more personal rants are indeed either f-locked or filtered, (most of the) fandom rants will be public.
• Crossposting to Facebook?
Depends on the entry. Personal entries, rather not.
• So, can I friend you?
Um, *roar*, okay. Sure thing, if you wanna stay in the loop
• Will you add me back?
It depends. Let make me this absolutely CLEAR---
if you do not comment on this entry and ask me to add you into my PERSONAL FILTER then, no, I won't friend you
---not even if I technically know who you are. I'm not doing this to be difficult but because seriously, if you don't drop a line I will assume you're here only for my lighter rants and don't give a flying fuck about the really personal stuff -- which is totally understandable, btw.
If I, however, add your journal, it's probably because *I* happen to find your rants interesting. Note that it DOES NOT mean I've added you into a filter of any kind, so yet again, it doesn't matter if I've friended you first or whatever, if you want to make sure you'll always be able to read those personal rants of mine, you simply HAVE TO COMMENT here and let me know that's the case!
---also, a relative of mine, someone I know face-to-face? No, I most definitely will NOT add you.
• WTF? Filters?
See, yeah, here's the thing. On most days I'm too lazy to use those filters of mine and normally, I don't feel the need to, either, BUT, still, I've divided my friends into filters. It's not because I'm mean and bitchy, but because there are certain things that I'm not willing to share with each and every person in the world.
At the time being, I am filtering every personal rant of mine, but I only have one filter in use, though, so if you comment here and ask to be added, you'll automatically be able to devour my deepest, darkest secrets :)
• Why have you unfriended me?
A) Well, most likely it's nothing personal and there's no need for tears. I've probably done so because I have the habit of sailing through fandoms and I've probably noticed we don't have anything in common anymore. Don't take it as an insult - I won't either, if you decide to unfriend me.
B) It also doesn't mean I'll automatically unfriend you if you unfriend me (unless you ask me to) because I might still be interested in hearing what you have to say. So, yeah, if you do want me to remove you from my friends list and/or filters for whatever reason, just let me know and it shall be done. No hard feelings, I promise.
C) If you've asked to be added into my PERSONAL FILTER, I won't remove you from my friends or from said list until YOU ask me to.
• Affiliate?
Um, no? Go to my other journals for that. I link the journals I fancy, basically.
• I have a question?
Okay, in that case, ask.