im so upset

[sweetmelody113]

im so tired of feeling not good enough. And I'm really tired of the only person making me feel that way being my husband. He's supposed to think I'm beautiful no matter what. He only makes me feel bad about myself. He only makes me feel insecure. He ALWAYS makes me feel ugly. I know there are men out there that would think I was beautiful

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*huggggg*

[wickedweasel]

(Rewriting this, because you're important enough to do so!)

Some men are just plain ole fucking idiots! :)

Sorry you're having to put up with this crap... There is *no* such thing as a perfect wife *or* husband, and your "significant" other is REALLY DAMN LUCKY to have a wife like you!!! He may not realize it now, but one day he's going to wake up and realize what an amazing woman he's had by his side for so long, and he'll feel like shit for treating you this way... When that happens, you have to forgive him and make things right, because you're a strong person, an amazing person, and you deserve so much happiness in your future :)

I less than thirty-three thousand three hundred and thirty three you!
;D

[l_shadowstalker]

Wicked is right. I just want to knock some sense into your husband though. No, you are not a trophy wife, you are Kara and his ass won't ever find anyone as sexy, strong, or intelligent as you are hun. Frankly, I think if you were a beanpole, he would still find fault because it's not you, it's him that has the problem. I love you and so does Raymond hun as well as your family and friends. Ride it out and remember, he can find no one who is better than you are.

[sweetmelody113]

thanks guys.. you're really are good friends... i feel better thanks to you. I just wish he thought like both of you. LOVE YOU GUYS.