clueless

[susaricah]

I feel kinda helpless. One of my friends is sad and I don't know what to do. What do you do when your friends are sad? Listen to them and "be there" is all I can offer, as I personally think I suck at giving advice. Or I fear to make them angry at me. I want to comfort them but don't know how. I feel overstrained but don't want to chicken out

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[susaricah]

Thank you ^^

I guess my problem is my fear of lacking in experience-based advisory. It feels stupid not to be able to actively help. But I suppose you've got a point there, that it is also good just to be there. Because there might be people who don't want to be bothered with other's problems.

Suggesting what you would do sounds like a good idea to me. I guess I'll try that.

[sanjichan]

ow...v__v
naja, da ich selbst auch nich grad der beste tröster bin, kann ich gut verstehen wie du dich fühlst... ich find's auch immer schrecklich, wenn's menschen, die ich gern hab schlecht geht und ich kann nich wirklich helfen (ich hatte das problem die letzten monate oft genug mit meiner ma).
aber ich hör dann auch einfach zu und nehm sie in den arm und sou Q__Q
ich hoff, deiner freundin gehts bald besser!

[susaricah]

jaa u__û

genau so war das bei mir auch, schätze ich.. naja, aber danke ^^ *plüsch*
es ist besser als nix oder`? o.o
ja ich denke es geht ihr schon besser^.^

[sanjichan]

*flausch*
japp...ich glaub das hilft manchmal sogar mehr als irgendwelche schlauen ratschläge zu geben ^^;
schön zu hören <3

[susaricah]

ja das denk ich mir auch.. sonst sind die leute womöglich noch sauer, was mir einfiele, so einen vorschlag zu machen...

[handsome_girl88]

ahh...my ricah..i think you had nice personality....don't be worry babeh...cause i think all your friends love and need you...yah..XD
so still take care with all okay....well have nice weekend my lovely ricah~~
*HUGS TIGHTLY*
xxxxxxxxxxxx

[susaricah]

ahhh thank you so much alice!! I wish you a nice weekend too! thanks for the lovely comment^^ you always there for me *hugs back*

[handsome_girl88]

yah...you're welcome my lovely ricah~~~~ ahh..*BLUSHES* no...no..i just...*confuse to say something*
ahh..well.....have nice weekend too!! yah..i will and you too okay??XDDDD
yah.....well always be happy okay??XDDD
take care!!!<33
*HUGS BACK AGAIN*

[susaricah]

aww so cute now you are confused o.O didn't want that XD
nice weekend for you too! ^_^
yes try be happy!!
:D