I've gone through the same thing, and am going through the same thing in regards to the military.
It gets easier over time, and one day you will look back on those memories and smile. Dwelling on them seems torturous. :( This probably will not be the only time you feel this way, and I think that the only way to move on is to look forward to making just as many happy memories in the future.
I'm sorry Morgon. *hugs* I wish there was some thing I could do for you. I feel like these words are not good enough.
I can definitely understand why it's upsetting for you. I'm also a very sentimental person, so I can relate to the attachment to places and specific memories. Sometimes it feels like life is going in fast-forward and I just want to slow it all down. Or go back, in some cases.
I hope that Sam's support can help you through this tough time.
I think one of the reasons I (stupidly) stayed in the Chicago area after graduation is that I just couldn't let go. These were the first real friends I had, and I didn't want to lose it.
Having since moved twice, and spent the last year at CUA, I'm filled with some small amount of dread about having to pack up and uproot myself again at the end of this academic year--but at least I have the knowledge that it is possible to rebuild elsewhere. I won't like the process, but it can happen.
That's nothing you don't already know. But that's all I can offer through this.
I know how you feel. All I can say is that time passes whether you like it or not, and nothing lasts forever. Instead of dwelling on the past, accept the new doors that open and new chapters that start in your life, and rebuild those happy times. You'll be fine. but you can't give up or live for anything but now. :C
I'm available on AIM and sometimes Skype if you need me.
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It gets easier over time, and one day you will look back on those memories and smile. Dwelling on them seems torturous. :( This probably will not be the only time you feel this way, and I think that the only way to move on is to look forward to making just as many happy memories in the future.
I'm sorry Morgon. *hugs* I wish there was some thing I could do for you. I feel like these words are not good enough.
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I hope that Sam's support can help you through this tough time.
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Having since moved twice, and spent the last year at CUA, I'm filled with some small amount of dread about having to pack up and uproot myself again at the end of this academic year--but at least I have the knowledge that it is possible to rebuild elsewhere. I won't like the process, but it can happen.
That's nothing you don't already know. But that's all I can offer through this.
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I'm available on AIM and sometimes Skype if you need me.
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