Please forget the words that I just blurted out it's wasn't me, it was my strange and creeping doubt

[supunk151]

I have a serious problem.................arguing and overreacting!! And I can't stoooooooooooooooooop. This is a horrible character flaw and I hate it. I'm trying to like catch myself and most of the time I do but when it slips past I go out of control!! I say things that I regret a lil while later and I make a fool out of myself. I evenually loose

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[godroth]

Bite your tongue every time you are about to "loose control". Then instead of saying something you regret you will be like.. "Ouch, I bit my tongue!"

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[supunk151]

lol i'll try that until it swells and then i won't be able to speak at all

[jaci_grl]

well i have one idea, but usually people dont like it either. I just so I have to have some time alone and i think about both sides of the situation and try to calm down. That way I dont say anything mean cuz i do the same thing. I say mean things when i dont have the time to think first about the end result. So I sit alone and think about what just happened and then get back with the person to talk about it. Well, usually my friends find me first and drag me out of my room...haha...but we wont mention names.....hehe..HUGS! Plus, writing in a journal helps get emotions out and might prevent bursting out rude guestures. Good luck girl....and by the way, knowing if you did wrong and making things right is always great and most of the time people forgive you. after all, to forgive is devine.

[supunk151]

Thanks!! Great advice.......hopefully soon i'll see you at annies.