How about some you time? I think that's what you may need. lol Anyway, I think maybe you should try and see where things go. I can understand how it may be difficult, seeing as you have kids and you wouldn't want them to get too attached or anything.But it sounds like things are going good for now. Maybe just take things slow and see what happens.
Unfortunately, there is no such thing as 'me' time. I can't even remember the last time I sat down with an actual book and sat in silence while I read. All I need is a good book and a cup of tea, and all will be right in my world.
But... I think you're right. I just need time to adjust to all of these changes in my life. If anything, I know that I have a wonderful friend by my side while I go through all of this. I just hope that I give him something to smile about every once in awhile, as well.
I think every mother needs to have 'me' time. To help keep your sanity at least. With little ones, I suppose it would be much harder to come by though.
I usually am. XD I'm sure you give him a lot to smile about.
Maybe try talking to him about it? I think it'd be good to see where things go... it sounds like it's going OK right now. Maybe if he knows about having to wait before you can file the divorce, he might be less withdrawn and more understanding about it? Idk. You just have to do what you think is best :)
I don't know. Guys tend not to want to talk about this kind of stuff. He's so busy and stressed from several things as it is, that I would hate to add on to that. I guess we'll see where it leads, it's only been a month.
I just needed a place where I could write all my thoughts down so I could catalog them all in my disorganized head. It's easier for me to process my emotions if I write them down. If that makes sense.
I'm not even going to give any advice because I feel too immature to have a clue. But he sounds like a nice guy :) I like that you've known him so long, that must feel really comforting to have such old roots with a friend like that.
He really is, almost to the point of being too nice, and it really is nice knowing him as long as I have. I am comforted in the fact that he's not some skeevy guy I met at a bar or something, but a solid friend for so many years.
Yeah, she's fine now. It scared the hell out of me when it happened though. I was afraid she might have knocked out a permanent tooth or something, or that she might need stitches. Thank goodness for small miracles.
I think I'll just let it go for now, and see where it leads on its own. I hate confrontation, even the awkward non-threatening kind.
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But... I think you're right. I just need time to adjust to all of these changes in my life. If anything, I know that I have a wonderful friend by my side while I go through all of this. I just hope that I give him something to smile about every once in awhile, as well.
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I usually am. XD I'm sure you give him a lot to smile about.
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Loves you so! *glomps*
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I just needed a place where I could write all my thoughts down so I could catalog them all in my disorganized head. It's easier for me to process my emotions if I write them down. If that makes sense.
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Perhaps you could talk to him about it? Then you can see where you're both at, what you want to do etc. Good luck! :)
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I think I'll just let it go for now, and see where it leads on its own. I hate confrontation, even the awkward non-threatening kind.
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