The End of a Relationship

[sunsetsessions]

I'm single again as of a few minutes ago. I'm sad but at the same time I can't help but wonder a several things. one of which has to do with this coming as something of a shock despite the fact that I can now say I kind of saw it coming. The other has to do with creeping self-doubt. What did I do wrong? I can't help but wonder. And the best one of

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[ribbin]

That's rough, man. But remember that it takes two people to build a relationship but only on to tear it down. Even if you'd done everything "right" you might still be in this situation. I say "right" rather than right because it's always a matter of doing what's right for that person and that relationship and the person you are at that time. That will change. Part of it is luck, part of it is experience on your part, and part of it is your partner.

Take some time, distract yourself, play music, drink beer, go canoeing, do whatever it is you do, and find joy in life. You'll meet other people, and when you do, you'll have that much more experience.

[sunsetsessions]

Thank you for your kind words of advice. It means a lot to me to hear what you said. At the end we didn't have a great relationship but I have to keep telling myself that it wasn't entirely my fault though with the amount of effort that she was putting in I can't help but feel that way.

Oh well, time to rediscover a bunch of new distractions and take part in the ones I already know.