friends

[sultana_de_maz]

Today (or maybe I did it already) I will be changing around my friends list and the filter, just because of life changes and stuff. I mostly took people off the friends list if I haven't seen or spoken with them in a long time and off the filter because of the break-up and I didn't want people to be offended by my posting about other men. If you

Comments

[hottippic]

I know that I haven't seen you in a while, but I'd like to be on your friends filter.

[sultana_de_maz]

Hey :) You are still on my friends list but are not on the filter, meaning you may read friends-only entries but not the filtered friends entries. These are sometimes very (genuinely, mind you) angsty or sexual in content so I have only friends who are very close and/or friends who are not bothered (or feel they are reading TMI) by my more sexy reports. This latter is relevant now because I am no longer with Adam and I don't want people to be weirded out. If you would like to be on the filter-filter you can ask; I just put people on it who I assumed would want to be on there and did not for people I don't know as well.

[hottippic]

I would like to be on it, but if you are not comfortable with me being on it, I am okay with that too. I will leave it to you as to whether you add me to it or not, and I understand if you choose not to.

[sultana_de_maz]

I shall put you on then :)

[sylvari]

I am sorry you took me off hon. There is no way I would not continue to care about what happens to you because of Adam. I like you both. But I understand the need to purge reminders including friends.

If you do not want to put me back on I understand and wish you well.

*hug*

[sultana_de_maz]

Read my comment to Tiff's reply above.

[sylvari]

I understand dear. If you thought it would squick me well.. lol.. you have met Mike right? ;)

Either way. It is your lj hon so your call.

[sultana_de_maz]

It's just that you were friends with Adam first and might be feeling some weirdness right now, which would be completely understandable. I do know however that in terms of squick-ness you and Mike would be somewhere at the subterranean bottom of the list of people who would be offended.

[tehuti]

I got taken off the filter. I don't know why you might think I would get offended, or if you dropped me because you moved, or whatever. At any rate, you'd have to try very hard to offend me, but if you wanted to remove me for a reason that you do not wish to share, I understand and respect that.

[sultana_de_maz]

Read my comment to Tiff's reply above.

[ostinatarosa]

Hey Jess,

I'd like to be put back on, if that's not a problem. I like keeping up with what's going on.

[sultana_de_maz]

Read my comment to Tiff's reply above.

[ostinatarosa]

Hey love,

I wouldn't be offended by anything you posted. This might sound weird, but as someone who *thinks* she's going to marry the man she's in a relationship with, I would like to see how things are going with you, how you're dealing- We've also had our hard times lately, and I would love to see how you're moving on, etc. I also am more or less on a permanent leave from Rocky, so I won't be seeing Rocky-types or Adam any time soon, and wouldn't be weirded out. So if it's not an imposition, I'd like to be on the filter as well.

(I hope this isn't coming out of left field or anything, I know we've been out of touch, but I like being able to at least read what you've been up to, since I can't really see you anymore!)

[sultana_de_maz]

That's fine then. Again, when people don't often post replies to my entries (not that they should) I wonder if they read them and so on. I shall add you.