oh god I had a teacher bully me too, when I was in first grade; she used to love "making an example" out of me in front of the class. It's the WORST when adults bully kids, especially teachers - you'd think they'd have a better understanding of just how badly they can screw up a child's psyche.
I agree, and it bothers me when people think "not fitting in" is the same as being bullied. I will agree that maybe everyone experiences the feeling of being ostracized at some point, but bullying? It's just a totally different level. I'm glad you found a good place to be at your job.
No, not everyone is bullied. I wasn't. Sure, I wasn't exactly popular and there were kids who didn't like me at various points during my school years and might have occasionally called me names, but that was it. My fiance, on the other hand, was bullied verbally (a lot) and physically (just a little) when he was at secondary school. It turned him into a much, much quieter person than he used to be (so I'm told, since I wasn't there) and has affected him in ways that will never go away, even though it was so long ago. He's come across one of the worst offenders from back then a couple of times in recent years and every time the only thing he could do was turn around before the guy could see him and run away.
I really hate all the bully topic... nobody really cares because never stops and at the end the adults we are like scared and snappy and at least I am , and I really cannot help it I am afraid of being hurt again and I am not very sociable because of this I fountd it very irritable when people says I sam agresive and when I ask for respect I am too sensible what the fuck!
Well it's nto so much the bullying that still "bothers" me per say, it's more that the consequences of it still push me even now. Istill have body image issues still try my hardest not to be notices and am terrified of screwing up for fear I will be ridiculed. And I tend to assume that everyone I know actually hates me. However, I think that it did ultimately make me stronger, so I guess it all works out.
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I'm glad you found a good place to be at your job.
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However, I think that it did ultimately make me stronger, so I guess it all works out.
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