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stumpy_thedwarf

Bit shit

Dec 22, 2008 01:11

Dave and I split up today ( Read more... )

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zahrimsthoughts December 22 2008, 04:00:30 UTC

Call me anytime Sophie.

If you ever want to visit to get away/clear your head you are welcome anytime too ok, whatever you need. *hugs*

stumpy_thedwarf December 22 2008, 23:05:44 UTC

Thank you. That means a lot. :) Trying to stay positive!!! xxx

zahrimsthoughts December 24 2008, 09:35:53 UTC

So sorry I missed your call the other night, I tried to call back but no answer *hugs* Call again sooon xxxx

rarahursty December 22 2008, 06:57:49 UTC

*hugs and lots of them* It must be strange after 2 years together. I'm glad its all been amicable though!

Where are you living these days?

stumpy_thedwarf December 22 2008, 23:05:13 UTC

Yeah it does feel really weird. Hopefully we'll use this time to figure out if there's a way we can possibly be together - it might all become clearer once we can pinpoint exactly what went wrong.

I'm still living in Manchester and he's moving back up to Newcastle (he was anyway, it's not because of the break-up). xxx

rarahursty December 23 2008, 06:58:00 UTC

I'm sure pinpointing will help! If you ever need a chat, i'm always about :)

Does this mean you won't be in Newcastle anymore?

stumpy_thedwarf December 23 2008, 22:46:42 UTC

I still hope to move to Newcastle one day, whatever happens, because I love it so much.

Plus, it looks like things are moving quite positively where Dave's concerned, so hopefully this was all a bit of drama that was unnecessary!! :) xxx

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alakaholic December 22 2008, 07:52:23 UTC

It's not really like breaking up with someone - it's more like grieving...

I know exactly what you mean. And just wanted to say: *hugs*

stumpy_thedwarf December 22 2008, 23:02:06 UTC

Thanks - I'm glad someone understands my ramblings!!! Hopefully it'll still turn out ok - maybe that's me being naive, I don't know.

Thank you, though. :) x

alakaholic December 23 2008, 10:13:05 UTC

Despite my sometimes-cynicism, I'm a firm believer in happy endings. I think whatever happens from here on, whether you end up together again or not, it'll be for the best. :) You in Manchester at any point over the hols? x

stumpy_thedwarf December 23 2008, 22:45:26 UTC

Yeah I'm in Manchester all the time now!!! I'm working for the NHS in Trafford at the moment and it is such a joy as you can imagine.

What are you up to at the moment? x

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tax December 22 2008, 07:56:44 UTC

!!!! I am in Manchester til the 28th and then I'm in Edinburgh.
ANYTHING can be rearranged for you. We'll do something awesome. How about you come to Chester with me and Pip to see Chris on Boxing day, or come into town tomorrow with me? I miss you, I want to see you so much and it's just doubled by this, I know i'm not the most useful person in the world with bad relationship stuff, but I will always do whatever I can to help.

In any case, as I said on faceache, I'm going to call you later anyway.

stumpy_thedwarf December 22 2008, 23:03:04 UTC

Thanks for the coffees today Frances! It really took my mind off things. I'm glad I'm going to be seeing lots of you over the hols - lovely!!! :)

See you soon xxx

hannah_honey December 22 2008, 08:12:25 UTC

Right, thats fucking IT. We're moving in together. Agreed? x

stumpy_thedwarf December 22 2008, 23:06:38 UTC

YES YES YES!!!!!

That's the offer I've been waiting for all my life!! :D xxxxxxxxxxx

love you Alfie! xxxxxxxx