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strangeimp13

Whooo! Random. And long.

Dec 05, 2007 15:27

So, I switched my major from general psych to clinical/counseling today. I still have to go to the social work office to drop the minor ( Read more... )

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lizzy9046 December 5 2007, 21:39:23 UTC

Sammy, you're about the least judgemental person that I know. I don't think someone would lie about that kind of thing to you because they thought you would think less of them unless they think less of themselves for it and are simply projecting these feelings onto you. Admitting that you have a vice to someone who doesn't have that vice and probably never will can be very demoralizing. Or at least that's how I rationalize the fact that Tyler never tells me anything about the shit he's up to -_-

strangeimp13 December 5 2007, 21:42:20 UTC

Thank you, Abby. Honestly, that's really exactly what I needed to hear.

<3

lizzy9046 December 5 2007, 22:01:45 UTC

^^ Glad to help

solaced_dreamer December 5 2007, 22:33:59 UTC

Sammy, I do not think that you're judgmental, but I can kind of see how people who don't know you might think that you are. It's kind of like the same way as I come off as aloof without trying to be aloof. I agree with Abby; sometimes if you're anti-(insert vice here) people that are like that are like "omg they'll judge me!" even if you won't. So. Yes.

strangeimp13 December 5 2007, 23:06:57 UTC

The thing that bothers me the most is that two of the three people know me very well... but... I'm sure it is just the whole guilt/shame/whatever thing.

sawbladesestina December 5 2007, 22:46:14 UTC

If people lie to you about their sex or smoking/drinking/drug habits, it's not nessescarily because of you. Some people tend to lie about these things in general, because they feel guilty or don't want to look bad. I know you've always been very supportive of my sexuality which I greatly appreciate.

strangeimp13 December 5 2007, 23:08:43 UTC

I know... I just... I guess I have a hard time understanding how they could lie to me. But I do understand where they're coming from... because it can be embarrassing and/or guilt inducing when you get confronted about stuff...

I just had one of those moments of "What if I actually seem like I'm a judgmental bitch?" and it scared me.

elsolylaluna December 6 2007, 17:05:50 UTC

You? Judgmental? Bitch, please. If you're still on speaking terms with me, I really don't think you're the type to judge.

strangeimp13 December 6 2007, 19:17:19 UTC

:D

Thank you for that.