theoretically attracted to all genders, in actuality never attracted even though I'd like to be.

[himynameishelen]

I wish I had the words to describe my sexuality, or lack thereof, but whilst I'm sure that somewhere on the internet someone has created a succinct title for what I am I don't know what it is and so I am feeling increasingly confused by myself.

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[theslithytove]

aromantic bi-sexual is perfectly legit. Either that or "grey-A" to simplify things.

You could also be something like me; I'm demisexual, which means that I'm only sexually attracted if I have some kind of emotional attraction going. So you might be kinda the reverse, although I don't know the name of what it would be, specifically. Maybe if you have sex or intimacy with an individual, you might become more romantically inclined towards them.

You could also be aromantic and pansexual. That encompasses all individuals, no matter where they fall on the gender spectrum.

And I do sympathize with wanting to be romantically attracted, if for no other reason than to find out what the hoopla's all about.