I'm sorry to report that
nerdielady passed away on April 6, 2012. She moved to the West Coast to be near her kids and grandkids last year, and it appears she eventually succumbed to cancer after a long battle.
In her obituary it mentions that she was "an award winning fanfiction writer" and I'm sure whoever wrote it knew about her love for S/U. She will be missed in many places, I know.