How?

[spike1972]

How does a bloke (and me), post to the Racks For Research post without coming across as being a perv? There again I guess people are entitled to make that assumption by me/a bloke being on the filter in the first place.

I'm sure there's more than me (and skyring and a few other blokes who've posted pics), but it seems to be only women commenting.

Comments

[yokospungeon]

My first piece of advice would be to select an icon which does not have Spike Milligan with what looks like a salacious expression on his face *giggle*. Something neutral perhaps?

Then, I would just say, by all means make an honest compliment, but don't go over the top - I mean - I don't know whether you have a sister or an aunty, but imagine if it would feel ok if what you were about to type were said to them, and if so, press post.

It's nice that you even thought it through. *hugs*

[spike1972]

Hmmm... not this icon then? ;op.

I'd never go ott, unless maybe it was someone I knew well and knew I could get away with it, with, (maybe a Yoko, or..).

It just that it could be seen as a little odd for blokes to be looking through for anything other than the pervy factor.

Maybe it's just paranoia kicking in again, I dunno.

((huggleswhilsttryingnottothinkofbra&boobies)).

[pookledo]

Use words like beautiful, pretty, gorgeous and stay away from words that would shock people like Yoko said.

[spike1972]

Yeah, I was never going to use words or phrases like "phwoar look at the size of those melons" for people.

Well, not all of em anyway

[tiggsybabes]

I didn't notice a photo of your boobs in there ...

[spike1972]

That's cos they're not there. I can't afford people sueing me for damage to their eyesight you know.

I shudder when I have to look at em, so I'd never inflict em on unsuspecting straners.

[stratedwn2you]

Come on!!
Just take a photo of your man boobs and post 'em :)

Men get breast cancer too, y'know ;)

It's for a good cause, and you do know that for each boob pic they get there will be a donation sent?

=)

[spike1972]

I'm waaay too self-concious and paranoid *blush*

I wouldn't inflict me on my worst enemy ;op