Take my comments with a grain of salt, ok? I'm not trying to attack you at all - just giving you some (hopefully helpful) advice from my own perspective. :) And out of love. ;)
Don't get stuck in feeling sorry for yourself over this. It won't help - trust me. People tend to seek out people who are confident and proactive on their own. My best advice - be independent about it. Don't worry about other people talking to you - talk to them. And don't just seek them out because you want friends - be THEIR friend (and you're really good at that!). Basically - pursue your own thing... figure out what you want in your life and go after it. And seek out other people to focus on being a friend to them and not just to have friends, if that makes sense. Trust me, it works MUCH better than relying on people to do what you hope they'll do. ;)
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Don't get stuck in feeling sorry for yourself over this. It won't help - trust me. People tend to seek out people who are confident and proactive on their own. My best advice - be independent about it. Don't worry about other people talking to you - talk to them. And don't just seek them out because you want friends - be THEIR friend (and you're really good at that!). Basically - pursue your own thing... figure out what you want in your life and go after it. And seek out other people to focus on being a friend to them and not just to have friends, if that makes sense. Trust me, it works MUCH better than relying on people to do what you hope they'll do. ;)
Love ya!
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