question meme day lantairvlea asks What do you like to do in your (I imagine often hypothetical) spare time?I feel like it's a requirement of motherhood to joke about our lack of spare time. You'll get friendly nods if you stand up in a meeting and say "I have two children under the age of 5. So my hobbies are... I don't know, showering
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Yeah.
You might think that between having a 3 year old and a full-time early-career academic post, I have no life. But that's not true at all. I have quite a bit of life. My husband and I eat pizza, drink beer, and watch Sci Fi every Saturday (that we're home). We travel regularly. I read every night before bed. I spent the weekend dyeing fabric and sewing new clothes out of it. I recently published a book of academic research wholly unrelated to my "day job". I've got plenty of hobbies, and I think that my ability to handle my academic responsibilities AND my parenting responsibilities is all the better for it.
[I also never understood the new-mother-not-showering trope. I never missed a shower; I figured no matter how unhappy she was (and she never was!), it wouldn't kill Gwen to roll around on the bathmat for 10 minutes until I was done.]
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I know I don't out the time I used to into my hobbies (except for the horses at this point), but I am trying to do better about that and even getting the boys to take part in what ways they can right now.
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But over the school year I re-taught myself how to crochet, I've done some sewing, gotten back into icon making a bit, and tried to make more of a social life for myself online.
I've also tried to learn/understand things that go on in society that I was unaware of before. Things like feminism and equality for ALL so that I can be a better person and so I can pass on the things I learn to my daughter.
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(Also, having a supportive partner makes this so much more doable.)
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