I dont agree with michael at all, and honestly it makes me a little angry. Sure let him think that he wouldnt love that child as much, until he actually had one, then thats the only way he could find out he was a moron. Why would you not want to save a dog and love it for the rest of its life? Thats such b.s. dump Michael for me baby, I'll give you everything you want.
I mean obviously I can get pets from wherever I want to but Michael wants a Corgi and he refuses to get one from a shelter cause he thinks it will have diseases and crap. The real problem is with his not wanting to adopt. But I don't even know if it's a problem because I don't know if I ever was going to anyway. I don't know!!! I'm so confused!
Katie...if you had to live the rest of your life without a man...would you adopt a baby or get artificially insememinated (sp?)? REALLY think about this. Do you ever want to be pregnant? Do you think it's worth not being able to work and do the things you love in order to carry a baby? If you really want to do that,then you have no poblem. Andy used to say the same thing (old Andy) about adopted children and it made me think less of him. I'm just being honest here. You and I have always agreed that that is the most selfish thing in the world because of the children out there in need of parents. With the world in the state it's in, would you want to be responsible for bringing another child into the world? This is a big deal...take some time on it. I love you!!!!
I have had this discussion with a lot guys because I might not even be ABLE to have kids because of the whole kidney disease thing. I think there can be some compromise... I mean I've always said maybe I would have a mixed family... adopt some have some, love them all... I mean you can't blame people for wanting to have kids, because its the most natural thing in the world, besides eat and sleep we are PROGRAMED to want to reproduce. I don't think it should be a deal-breaker in a relationship if there are no other problems.
I really like the idea of adopting because I don't like the idea of stress on my body, and I feel that there are plenty of children who need homes with loving people etc... on the other hand theres also like this instinctual bond thing with having something that is a part of you physically... it sort of mystifying.
I don't think its necessarily 'selfish' to want kids. But I do think it's a very, very good thing to adopt.
Yeah, I feel the same way as you. Plus, I don't want to get fat and never be able to lose the weight lol. But I've decided not to let it effect our relationship since I myself don't even know what I want yet. If the time comes when for some reason I want to have a baby or maybe adopt one, he may have changed his mind. Getting upset about it right now isn't going to help anything.
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The real problem is with his not wanting to adopt. But I don't even know if it's a problem because I don't know if I ever was going to anyway. I don't know!!! I'm so confused!
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I really like the idea of adopting because I don't like the idea of stress on my body, and I feel that there are plenty of children who need homes with loving people etc... on the other hand theres also like this instinctual bond thing with having something that is a part of you physically... it sort of mystifying.
I don't think its necessarily 'selfish' to want kids. But I do think it's a very, very good thing to adopt.
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Plus, I don't want to get fat and never be able to lose the weight lol.
But I've decided not to let it effect our relationship since I myself don't even know what I want yet. If the time comes when for some reason I want to have a baby or maybe adopt one, he may have changed his mind. Getting upset about it right now isn't going to help anything.
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