First fight.

[sophistikatie]

So Michael and I got into our first big fight. I guess it's pretty stupid but I can't help but be upset and extremely disappointed. Kate is here this week and we were going to go clubbing in Orlando but when we found out more people would go if we went to a place here in Melbourne (it would have just been me, kate and michael in orlando) I asked

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[littlemissdrama]

My advice, actually would be to let things like this go... only because it makes you look like a nag if you don't.

I see it this way: You want the way he makes you happy to come natural.. like breathing.. it should be the easiest thing in the world for him to love you.
BUT he is going to fuck up... and you need to be okay with that sometimes ( no body is perfect) you can express dissapointment, but let it go or you'll look like a whiner...any time you force/beg someone to do something to make you happy, you take away the specialness of it, and you also make subsequent unsolicited efforts at making you happy less likely.

So your allowed to be disappointed sometimes, but don't let it fester.
If you're getting disappointed all the time, it might be a symptom of something bigger.

Glad you worked it out.. love you girl, call me ANYTIME you want.
miss you like crizazy.
xooxoxoxoxo

[sophistikatie]

yeah, i'm pretty sure you're right. thanks bekah! <3