This is you, this your journey. This isn't their's...If they had reservations for what you were partaking on, they should have brought it up earlier in the journey.
Sometimes in our ways we think we are protecting our friend and family by being negative or worrisome. By giving our what if's, and could haves. But you can right a book on what ifs and could haves, not live a life.
If you wanted to, you could post something on FB or send a letter to all concerned, that you understand their doubts or their concerns, but you are uninterested or don't need them at this time. You could be a bit more PC about it if you wanted to.
I know my journey isn't the same as yours, but I learn it everyday. This is your path, not theirs, they may be the shadows of doubt on the hill, hiding in the trees, or the clouds in the sky covering the sun, but you know where you are going. You keep that thought and action in your heart, use it to shield or "ground" those doubtful people, and continue on.
Thank you. And I do know. It's mostly the juxtaposition that gets me. None of them mean it meanly. I think it's just the first time it's felt real to them, so it's coming out now. I mostly just do my best to change the subject. So far that's working.
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As far as concerns, there are concerns when people have a biological baby too. To heck with that! ;)
SO EXCITED!!!!!!!!!
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This is you, this your journey. This isn't their's...If they had reservations for what you were partaking on, they should have brought it up earlier in the journey.
Sometimes in our ways we think we are protecting our friend and family by being negative or worrisome. By giving our what if's, and could haves. But you can right a book on what ifs and could haves, not live a life.
If you wanted to, you could post something on FB or send a letter to all concerned, that you understand their doubts or their concerns, but you are uninterested or don't need them at this time. You could be a bit more PC about it if you wanted to.
I know my journey isn't the same as yours, but I learn it everyday. This is your path, not theirs, they may be the shadows of doubt on the hill, hiding in the trees, or the clouds in the sky covering the sun, but you know where you are going. You keep that thought and action in your heart, use it to shield or "ground" those doubtful people, and continue on.
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As for those around you - wake up.
Geesh...
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