Just a thing I need to say.

[soberloki]

Oh, come on already.Gents: if she doesn't want to date YOU, but wants to be your friend, that's because there's something about you that makes her feel you're not a reasonable match for her as a boyfriend, but you're appealing in some other way. She may associate your face shape with someone she broke up with in high school, but still really like

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[sabotabby]

So agreed. Fuck Nice Guys. And especially fuck Nice Guys who wear fedoras with t-shirts and baggy pants and thus ruin perfectly good hats for the rest of the male population.

[surrey_sucks]

I don't know who you are, but saw that you added me to your LJ, so I cam to take a peek.

Anyway..... I fully agree with what you have written. Jesus christ, guys need to get a fucking clue. And sometimes, we are not into a guy simply because we are not physically attracted to them. I'm not going to fuck everyone who wants to fuck me, nor do I owe it to them. And I don't owe it to anyone to "give them a chance". I fuck people who I am attracted to.

Luckily my male friends are cool and not assholes or Nice Guys in disguise (I won't put up with that shit, and dumped one male friend because I was fed up with his shenanigans, which involved sabotaging my chances with a guy I liked, and throwing up in my shoe closet). But there are tons of Nice Guys on online dating sites, and I've had to deal with my share of them. They feel that they are entitled to your time/body, and the emails they send are pretty much, "I think your [sic] hot, so we should meet" with no regard to how I feel about them (which is usually like vomiting).