no secrets I'm afraid... but I can say this, me and D. had rough spots. Times I felt that though I loved him it just wouldn't work... when it hurt and giving up seemed far less painful. I'm glad I didn't. We have both learnt from past fights/misunderstandings what ever you wish to call them... something has resolved, maybe it is I finally feel safe (I think you may understand what I mean). I don't know if I can explain it but I have never felt as loved or loved someone as much (who wasn't related to me in some way ;) ), I see myself growing old with this person and having silly fights because I want chickens and he hates them... and so I suppose we will compromise and have ducks (we've been practicing). We are both obstinate independent people... somehow it is working, we have both made compromises and come to understand each other more. However will this be the case for you or are you just destined to keep fighting... I guess the thing to ask yourself is how much are you willing to compromise and how much is he... and will that
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