It's The Little Things, Really

Sep 26, 2004 22:11

I was lounging on the couch this evening watching a movie. Nothing especially provocative, but one filmed in red, ochre, and golden tones. The lights were off, and watching it in the dark the glow from the screen echoed the gentle light of a fire or golden candle flames. I was sliding my fingers through my hair, smoothing out imaginary tangles ( Read more... )

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cyberfunkr September 27 2004, 05:24:27 UTC
Appears you've been looking at the wrong men. I'm very much a 'go for the throat' person. Well, okay, the whole neck area, but you get the idea.

The smell of a woman's neck alone, just nuzzling in to the neck and taking a deep whiff gets me started. Then nibbles, running the tongue from shoulder blade to ear lobe, maybe a bite to back of the neck.

As for the subtlety in pubic, that works too. I have a very set way of pulling hair. Always gets a good handful by the roots. But that same motion can be used to just scratch heads too. So in public, and even a few times in private, I can do 'the move' and they never know if it's just a scratch or a pull.

The same maybe-yes-maybe-no works on the throat too. I put my hand so that the thumb rests on the nape of the neck while the fingers reach around to the front. In public, massaging the back and stroking the flesh in front. In private, a gentle 'squeeze' to get attention.

It's all about the anticipation, the tease.

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de_be September 27 2004, 09:15:49 UTC
I love to read your journal, you don't write, you paint with words

Kissing a womans neck on the spot just behind her jaw, running my fingers through her hair, tracing little designs on her scalp with the tips of my fingers, caressing her ears with just my lips, little nibbles on her lobes, gently tracing the line of her jaw with my finger. Touching, stroking, caressing ... I can get lost in it all.
Very much a part of who I am.
DB

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idprismindigo September 27 2004, 10:56:02 UTC
hm. i think a lot of times women dont tell men what they want explicitly... for some reason women take a lot of pleasure in knowing that a man can please them WITHOUT knowing what they like. dont ask me why. i (and a few friends of mine) have this theory that women want men to read their minds. we think that its been that way for a long time and theres nothing thats going to change it, really. most women want to feel like theyre being read by their man, though many will refute it.. i think women like feeling that theyve found a soulmate, maybe.. whether or not its true ( ... )

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treylis September 27 2004, 20:38:41 UTC
I tend to do things of that nature a lot, because my own nature is to be a terrible tease. I find that playing with hair and caressing skin is rather ideal for those purposes, and I have the patience of a rock when it comes to playing games of that type with people. So amusing.

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CuRvEs mrhulk2005 October 1 2004, 13:11:54 UTC
The idea is to be gentle all the time & then go for it in bed..right?
Anyway, I like your website, only got to look at it whilst at work :P hehe, but nice stuff & I prefer bigger women, you are only slightly more rounded than some :)

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