People say I am a horrible person because I won't have anything to do with my biological mother. (my ex husband's family told me this all the time, but they are part of a reason we are divorced now).
I chose to ignore those people, because people like that do not have any idea. They are "christians" too and used the god line on me. They would probably tell me I am going to hell again if they knew I've cut off my ex-step-bitch for even implying my father did what has happened in your family.
You do not have to forgive. He doesn't deserve your time. In my opinion, not having contact with his children or future grandchildren is a greater punishment for what he has done than anything the government can do to him.
I don't know that something like this will ever heal, but I do hope you will not let this rule your life, as the bastard doesn't deserve it. I want you and Alex to have all the happiness you can have, you both deserve it so much.
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I chose to ignore those people, because people like that do not have any idea. They are "christians" too and used the god line on me. They would probably tell me I am going to hell again if they knew I've cut off my ex-step-bitch for even implying my father did what has happened in your family.
You do not have to forgive. He doesn't deserve your time. In my opinion, not having contact with his children or future grandchildren is a greater punishment for what he has done than anything the government can do to him.
I don't know that something like this will ever heal, but I do hope you will not let this rule your life, as the bastard doesn't deserve it. I want you and Alex to have all the happiness you can have, you both deserve it so much.
*hugs*
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