Thought 2: Internet and gay men

[sleeping_ox]

Internet gay men are bad for me...cause simply put, at the heart of it, I'm attracted to men because of Muscle. Yes, I know, don't judge a book by its cover, its whats inside that counts, yadda yadda yadda. If you're not attracted to the outer shell, a relationship in the manner I define a relationship (see ayn rand) is doomed

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[mbcrui]

See, what happens when you get older... eventually you notice the person with the great personality is actually very attractive... you just didn't notice at first.

Believe me, I had my share of beefcake "romances" when I was younger... but I married the great guy who had grown amazingly attractive after I'd known him for a while.