what a friggin day....

Aug 03, 2008 15:13

First... My uncle lost the battle with his brain cancer today... He's been in Hospice this past week and my mom's been over there helping her sister out.  Rest In Peace Uncle Bill ( Read more... )

benji, loki, rip, polo

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asynjur August 3 2008, 23:04:11 UTC
Polo should be more careful what he says, good thing the kid's dad wasn't the kind to take a swing. Sorry to hear you're feeling disharmonious, hope the stars align for you soon!

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slave2three August 4 2008, 01:46:48 UTC
yea, as soon as they left to sit down I lectured him.. :/ He's just been a inconsiderate ass like that all weekend long. and it really is annoying cause it seems like he pulls this crap when ever *I* need to be the one in a bad mood and be a little selfish for once.. i'm not a terror when i get that way, mostly i just need to maybe vent a little and be left alone.. but every time *I* need that he throws this attitude and I've gotta try to fix his stupidness instead. When I Told him about my uncle... the first most important thing on his mind was "Great does that mean your mom's back for babysitting on friday?!?!?(I have a dentist appointment during the day) cause i gotta know so i can talk to my dad about it" (who didn't even call him back all weekend long!) cause he was going to ask his dad instead cause Mom told my aunt she'd stay with her until the end........

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asynjur August 3 2008, 23:04:55 UTC
Oh, and so sorry to hear about your uncle!

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slave2three August 4 2008, 01:49:51 UTC
Thanks... We weren't horribly close..I probably met him 10X or so at family visits..... he's my aunt's fifth husband..... but he was a good guy to her and i know she must be hurting a lot right now, but there's nothing we can really do about it, except to try harder to help mom out so she can help her out.. ya know?

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priyabradfield August 4 2008, 08:08:08 UTC
Seems like you need a big *hug* right about now...

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slave2three August 5 2008, 19:38:53 UTC
Thanks :) Things are still hectic, but not so hit-your-head-on-the-wall-cause-nothing-is-quite-right any more.. I'm doing better at handling it :)

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mysteries August 4 2008, 14:28:25 UTC
You know I am here darlin. I only just popped online for a quick sec yesterday when I got home and never checked LJ. I'm sorry to hear about your Uncle, but glad the situation is coming to an end so the pain for every one can ebb with time. I will try and call on my lunch. I don't know what it will be like or when because or orientation. If you need time away after I get off work let me know and I will try to get down there or meet you some where ok? Lemme know if I need to push Polo around for you a bit ok? ;-) Him speaking to you and or other people in the way you described is not ok. We can go all Jr. High on him if needed... lol (oh how that comment is so different for us than it is any other girls, screw gossip hit um!!!!)

I love you sweetie and am here.

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slave2three August 5 2008, 19:43:21 UTC
Stupid LJ never sent this! I was online in the morning... then i would have known to wait for your call! ARGH!

Thanks for the thoughts though! After we *Talked* onced the Mexican family left, he did apologize and said that it was a stupid and insensitive thing to say. (specially with his ESL mom! EEESH!).

I think hormones are half my problem, but he still haven't done much to help really help himself.. although I did kick his ass all over the place on STAR WARS Battlefield the other night and heheh, lets say I got some "frustrations" out the night before and he agreed to it! :O

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