Ideals
Here are a few thoughts about my ideal wife. Not all of these are requirements, as the wording of my statements indicates. The earlier a statement appears, the more important it is. I have inserted paragraph breaks as the sections move from necessary to important to unimportant. A woman doesn't have to meet many of these to be my friend, and my future wife may not match more than the first paragraph perfectly. These are not all set in stone, and my judgement of a persons matching to this may be different than another person's. I would hate to lose the opportunity of a friend because something didn't seem to match, when it might have matched in my eyes. But I am going to risk this, because it is important for a person to know what he is trying to find.
This, then, is the single woman I want to find:
She is a Christian. She respects me. She has flexibility in dealing with people and events. She is free from addictions. She is 100% non-smoker. She is committed to a life-long marriage. She is interested in having children. She believes in a Biblical discipline style. She has a strong spiritual relationship with Jesus the Christ. Her character is strong; she lives by what she believes, to the best of her ability. She has integrity. She is honest. She has authenticity. She agrees with the Biblical model of roles in marriagein all facets. She has the ability to work through conflict. She is gentle in spirit. She is firm in resolve. She is reasonably intelligent. She is opposed to abortion. She is opposed to pornography. She is a suitable helper for my life's work, as Eve was a help meet for Adam. She is easy-going. She is able to communicate her thoughts and feelings to others. She is confident enough to be vulnerable with me. She is a good listener. We have fun together She is Conservative in her political philosophy.
She doesn't dress in revealing clothes outside of the home, and she most likely doesn't desire to. She doesn't have anything other than her ears pierced. She is conversational, but not overly talkative. She is balanced between bein funny and being serious, but she leans toward funny. She is tactful but straightforward. She expects physical affection from her husband. She has a healthy level of ambition for herself and for her husband. She is creative. She has good manners. She is comfortable when the temperature of the house is near or below 74°F. She is intuitive. She knows what she wants, and I fit her criteria. She doesn't view multi-tasking while waiting as impatience. She is probably more of a thinker than a feeler. She is most likely within 7 years of my age.
She is very likely to be physically affectionate. She probably enjoys Chess. She probably has an interest in philosophical questions. She is very likely to have medium-length hair. Her hair is probably dark brown, light brown, or red, or maybe strawberry blonde, or blonde, but probably not black. Her hair is probably wavy or straight, rather than curly. She probably has good family relationships. She probably has a cute, button or small nose. She probably has a thin, angular face with a classic or refined look. She probably wears glasses and has the sophisticated and smart look that goes with them. She probably has a pattern of wholesome friendships. She probably has a pattern of long-term friendships. She probably knows what's in the comments of my web pages. ;)
This, then, is the single woman I want to find:
She is a Christian. She respects me. She has flexibility in dealing with people and events. She is free from addictions. She is 100% non-smoker. She is committed to a life-long marriage. She is interested in having children. She believes in a Biblical discipline style. She has a strong spiritual relationship with Jesus the Christ. Her character is strong; she lives by what she believes, to the best of her ability. She has integrity. She is honest. She has authenticity. She agrees with the Biblical model of roles in marriagein all facets. She has the ability to work through conflict. She is gentle in spirit. She is firm in resolve. She is reasonably intelligent. She is opposed to abortion. She is opposed to pornography. She is a suitable helper for my life's work, as Eve was a help meet for Adam. She is easy-going. She is able to communicate her thoughts and feelings to others. She is confident enough to be vulnerable with me. She is a good listener. We have fun together She is Conservative in her political philosophy.
She doesn't dress in revealing clothes outside of the home, and she most likely doesn't desire to. She doesn't have anything other than her ears pierced. She is conversational, but not overly talkative. She is balanced between bein funny and being serious, but she leans toward funny. She is tactful but straightforward. She expects physical affection from her husband. She has a healthy level of ambition for herself and for her husband. She is creative. She has good manners. She is comfortable when the temperature of the house is near or below 74°F. She is intuitive. She knows what she wants, and I fit her criteria. She doesn't view multi-tasking while waiting as impatience. She is probably more of a thinker than a feeler. She is most likely within 7 years of my age.
She is very likely to be physically affectionate. She probably enjoys Chess. She probably has an interest in philosophical questions. She is very likely to have medium-length hair. Her hair is probably dark brown, light brown, or red, or maybe strawberry blonde, or blonde, but probably not black. Her hair is probably wavy or straight, rather than curly. She probably has good family relationships. She probably has a cute, button or small nose. She probably has a thin, angular face with a classic or refined look. She probably wears glasses and has the sophisticated and smart look that goes with them. She probably has a pattern of wholesome friendships. She probably has a pattern of long-term friendships. She probably knows what's in the comments of my web pages. ;)