This is heavy shit. Sorry.

May 08, 2009 20:28

What do you do when shit happens and you have to stop pretendy fun?  Do you say why and freak everyone out? Or do you just suddenly mumble a few excuses, disappear, leaving everyone to wonder what they did wrong?  I prefer to give the reason and hope it doesn’t make people feel too awkward. So yeah, I’ve sat and retyped this post umpteen times, I’m ( Read more... )

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Ryan/Saxie/all that and the kitchen sink!mun here nazgilly21 May 8 2009, 20:10:48 UTC
The possibility of RL stuff interfering with the RP world is a tricky one, especially when and if you have to give reasons for it that aren't that fun. That said, I think you're handling it very gracefully and eloquently, especially given the situation.

For my part, I love you and think you're fab, and if there was ever a reason to need a break of however long, this is it. No need to apologize or anything at all. :)

I'll be around, of course, RPing and on this LJ and AIM (mahous21) if you ever want to talk. And sending all sorts of good thoughts and positive chi and whatnot your way. *hugs*

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*Welcomes you all in and makes tea* six_echo May 8 2009, 21:02:57 UTC
omg yeah. It's like 'do I give everyone a major downer or just shuffle off to the right here?' I just read through all these messages and snivelled. I love you too :) In fact all of you.

It's scary, but one needs to remain optimistic and not go over the deep end. And thanks so much for the offer of IM &hearts Addie-mun has actually been chatting to me, she's always been great and I can't get the brain power to talk much. lol, lucky she's a patient sort :) I'm adding you on this account as a friend too. *hugs*

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*has brought cookies and whatnot!* nazgilly21 May 8 2009, 21:06:46 UTC
Heh, well, even if you did shuffle off, we're all the nosy and snoopy type, so we'd be all curious and pestering you. Awwww, we love you too!...obviously, as I just said that. :D

Yesss, optimism is good. *snuggles* You're welcome! And really, anytime. I mean, if I can get my AIM to cooperate. :D

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six_echo May 8 2009, 21:26:06 UTC
My muse would never let me rest if I did that ;)

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Rogue mun here morganichele May 8 2009, 20:16:23 UTC
I'm sorry to hear about your bad news.

*hugs*

If you need to talk or just to NOT talk, but have someone willing to listen or sit there in silence, I'm queenmorgan23 on AIM. And, that made little sense...just...you have a friend out here if you need another one.

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six_echo May 8 2009, 21:06:39 UTC
Thanks so much hunny. I'm lucky to have a nice hubby who is brilliant at helping me maintain my sense of humour. Just the initial shock and that not-being-able-to-stop-thinking thing.

I have added you, and thanks for offering <3 I may pop up when I'm a bit less fraught in my head! *snugs*

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will_aurelius May 8 2009, 20:17:55 UTC
I'm so sorry to hear this... and will be around any time you want to talk or need somebody to listen. And I agree, you have no need to apologise for anything. *scruffle*

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six_echo May 8 2009, 21:10:38 UTC
Hey you :) Thanks so much, and Sorry I haven't replied to your pings, I logged on to a couple of 'hello's', but I've been a bit away with the faeries - still am!

*HUGS*

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nazitra May 8 2009, 20:39:20 UTC
I'm so sorry. hearts and hugs here.

And around on AIM if you want to talk anytime. ♥

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six_echo May 8 2009, 21:16:13 UTC
Thank you sweetie. *&hearts 's you back* It's just a weird, weird time atm.

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Mag over here i_am_cedes May 8 2009, 20:42:34 UTC
Hey hon... I'm actually waiting on similar test for my father, I'm going to add you to my prayers (if you want) that it's just a pinched nerve or something easier to manage.

Know that you're really awesome and that I enjoy playing against you and geeking out over telling you about random art-history crap. I'm more than willing to continue to do such if you want, and I'm going to add you to my flist. If you want to hear about my mini!rants and other random stuff, feel free to add me back.

so much love.
-Cede

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six_echo May 8 2009, 21:22:00 UTC
Hello, thanks so much for replying here <3 I lived with Parkinson's as a child, my grandad, who lived next door, had it, so I feel for you with your dad. I'll add him to mine as well.

Oh I always enjoy interacting with your muses too! I will certainly add you and everyone else who's commented here. And I'm Tess btw xxx

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i_am_cedes May 8 2009, 21:26:20 UTC
yeah- it's either that... or like, a dozen other things. (we've all decided to blame it on swine flu)

Hey Tess I...am... CEDE (worst journal name joke ever)
ditto on the AIM basis- it's on mag's journal if you want.

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six_echo May 8 2009, 21:31:52 UTC
Can I ask if you're a Brit? Purely on the basis of the mention of swine flu.

I'll add your AIM too, ty! (Mine is Phoenix Kaelen) But I'm still brainhurty tonight, I'll look out for you when I'm more compos mentis.

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