couples_therapy Abandon

Sep 02, 2008 19:00

You feel guilty when you realise it's time to move on. As much as I’d like to believe that I’m unique in that respect, I’m not. My therapist said it, but I didn’t believe her. Then my best friend said it, and I believed it. It hurts to move on, because in order to do so, you have to accept that whatever you’re grieving for won’t come back. Ste’s ( Read more... )

[people] lorna dane, [people] ste jones, [comm] couples_therapy

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john_movinon September 3 2008, 00:38:38 UTC
You are not abandoning him, Terry. And you are not disgusting excuse for a human being, so don't say things like that. You're amazing, and strong, and you'll be okay.

I miss him too. I'm so sorry.

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siryn_song September 3 2008, 01:10:44 UTC
Okay. I won't. Thank you.

We never got to do our water park trip. I want to plan something else. Anything in mind?

Stop that.

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john_movinon September 3 2008, 01:56:27 UTC
Okay. Good.

No, we didn't. Um... I don't know. Zoo?

I can't.

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siryn_song September 3 2008, 02:37:20 UTC
Zoo could be fun. Will and I went to the Bronx Zoo once, that was cool.

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skids_sally September 3 2008, 00:38:52 UTC
I wish I had any kind of answer, Terry, but I don't. It is hard and it doesn't ever go away but I think...you think about it a little less. And that totally freaks a person out at first and the guilt builds up like woah but...I think it helps when there actually is someone else that you're thinking of liking. It also hurts.

I don't know what I'm trying to say. Just...moving on isn't bad.
I'm sorry its so hard right now.

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siryn_song September 3 2008, 01:14:37 UTC
I know you understand. I feel bad saying sometimes I forget you understand. You're too young to understand. I'm sorry. But I am glad to know that it gets a little better. For your sake, if not mine.

Moving on isn't bad. I'll have to keep repeating that one.

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skids_sally September 3 2008, 01:38:37 UTC
Don't feel bad about that, Terry.

Yeah, eventually you might even believe it.

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siryn_song September 3 2008, 18:29:53 UTC
That sucks.

Yeah. We will.

Don't ever leave me, okay?

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osborn_heir September 3 2008, 10:36:52 UTC
I hope it gets better for you, Terry.

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siryn_song September 3 2008, 18:30:17 UTC
Thank you, Harry. I don't know what's really going on with you, but I hope it gets better for you too.

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erikscordelia September 3 2008, 14:23:29 UTC
siryn_song September 3 2008, 18:31:20 UTC
I guess that's a good way to look at it. Thanks.

I know you do. Thank you. I love you too.

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