So... I made an offer. Then I got told that someone else had also made an offer ( Read more... )

Okay, so .. since Ben moved in there's been the understanding that two men can't really live long-term in an apartment that fitted one (I'd had 11 years of sprawl to fill my apartment with junk and while some of it's been thrown out and cleared for Ben to fill with his stuff, the fact remains we are still squeezed into a double bed when Ben has a ( Read more... )

Things are puttering on apace in Canberra - we are freezing our nuts off a fair bit (Minus 8 one night! That really should not be allowed to be a temperature ( Read more... )

For various reasons, last night was the first night that Ben and I got proper rip-roaring drunk together (neither of us are usually massive drinkers, I think there might have been a discount on quality booze at the supermarket, so we had a combination of Mojitos and Black Sambucca (Ben had more of the black sambucca as he's more pro-aniseed than I ( Read more... )

Just so you know I'm still alive and kicking... and here's what the man in my life looks like, for those who were wondering..


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I've used "Mean Girls" and "Drop Dead Gorgeous" quotes in casual conversation with Ben, and he hasn't picked up on them - and admits to never having seen Drop Dead Gorgeous ( Read more... )

So, I've been back at work for three weeks now. Ben has been settled in (and is still looking for work, one bad thing about moving up here is that he's had to find himself a new job, which is taking its own sweet time happening). There's some adjustments to living with a new person (oh, so you put that stuff THERE, do you?) but we're coping ( Read more... )

Ben has moved in. Well, mostly ( Read more... )

Weekend with Ben went lovely. I'm sure you don't want the filthy details ( Read more... )

I've gone a month and a half without posting. And .. during that time, there has been daily e-mail and phone calls and messaging to Ben, but no physical catching up. This has been largely due to... well, Simon decided to volunteer to crew a show, didn't he? And that ate up a whole heap of weekends. The show was 42nd street, it was fun, bright, ( Read more... )