I had to take off early today to go to meet with the lawyer. She was very nice and advised me whether he was bullshitting me or not I needed to do this custody thing because of his history of taking off
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I'm glad you got some reassurance from that Erin. I've been telling you for years that you have done a wonderful job - now you've had someone else tell you! I've always thought that he was bluffing about custody. He makes it sound like he is the one that would look good in the courts but it's him that is going to look bad. Continue to document anything that happens. Dates and times. He might be bluffing this time but you never know when he's going to do it for real and it always pays to be ready. A few nasty emails isn't going to lose you custody but it does pay to keep your mouth shut now. So from now on try and control yourself and give him NOTHING he can use against you in the future. Your goal should always be to make yourself smell like roses in court. You've done that as a mother - no question.
I really am as close to squeaky clean as can be when it comes to Ben. He is my life and my #1 priority. His well being is the key. Although, I think I brought home someone elses child today - he was a BEAST tonight!
He didn't get my texted apparently. I emailed him but I haven't heard back. I should call but I don't get very good reception at home so I hate calling people while at home. I'll probably try him at lunch tomorrow.
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I've been telling you for years that you have done a wonderful job - now you've had someone else tell you!
I've always thought that he was bluffing about custody. He makes it sound like he is the one that would look good in the courts but it's him that is going to look bad.
Continue to document anything that happens. Dates and times. He might be bluffing this time but you never know when he's going to do it for real and it always pays to be ready.
A few nasty emails isn't going to lose you custody but it does pay to keep your mouth shut now. So from now on try and control yourself and give him NOTHING he can use against you in the future.
Your goal should always be to make yourself smell like roses in court.
You've done that as a mother - no question.
Have you talked to your brother.
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I really am as close to squeaky clean as can be when it comes to Ben. He is my life and my #1 priority. His well being is the key. Although, I think I brought home someone elses child today - he was a BEAST tonight!
He didn't get my texted apparently. I emailed him but I haven't heard back. I should call but I don't get very good reception at home so I hate calling people while at home. I'll probably try him at lunch tomorrow.
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