On the other hand, have you ever been incredibly attracted to someone who, objectively, wasn't even that hot, or hot at all, but whatever man, you liked them anyway for whatever reason, and your friend were all 'oh come s/he's ugly, dude!' and so on?
I think it's not so much what you have, it's what you do with it. And you're already starting with some pretty damn hot raw material, so, woman, it's definitely a good idea to get rid of those kind of useless, negative thoughts. Those are for losers and you aren't one.
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Italian waffles probably suck, though. But alright.
On the other hand, have you ever been incredibly attracted to someone who, objectively, wasn't even that hot, or hot at all, but whatever man, you liked them anyway for whatever reason, and your friend were all 'oh come s/he's ugly, dude!' and so on?
Yes. My ex-boyfriend was this, according to my friends, but I personally thought he was super-hot and as such, fitted better with someone hotter than me. BUT I WAS SEVENTEEN, SO.
Either way - yeah. This will not be a year for losers!
Actually we don't have waffles at all. Waffles are for americans and losers.
YEAH SEE. Like in high school I had this crush for this guy, and everyone told me I was blind or something. He had long black greasy hair he never washed, and he was way too thin and had no butt at all, and he had long eyelashes like a girl and a long, thin face and nose and ETC ETC. My point being-- he was mad-popular with girls, I think he didn't go a month without getting laid (I know I would have gladly offered myself if that happened). He had self-confidence to sell :F I never got to hit that BUT I LEARNED A LIFE LESSON!! /rambles on
I like your maths, Ruxi. And yeah, I'm not saying that they're mutually exclusive. I've met people that are attractive physically, but there's nothing but unsharpened crayons in their brains; and they did nothing for me. I think I do feel that ping of interest when there's interesting conversation, more than if there's a pretty face to stare at - which is why I will never be into the picking-up-in-bars scene.
But either way, this is more about me saying 'fuck you world I am so good enough'. :)
I would like to serve you notice that this is the second time you have replied to me with that icon in under 12 hours. I hope you know what this means :(
I'll be the first to admit that all this talk about how it is the inside that counts isn't entirely true; I know myself to be more than a little vain when it comes to picking a partner as well (reality proves this), but hey, when it comes to first impressions, or even attraction, looks do play a part. It's later on, when you need to be able to decide if you can keep someone in your life, that personality becomes the bigger issue.
Or maybe that's just my way of justifying that I'm so vain in my choice of partners XD
Either way, I had a point to this. Cella, don't be too hard on yourself for caring about looks when you look for someone. Why shouldn't you have the prettiest in the bunch of possible boyfriends/girlfriends? You're one of the prettiest girls I know, so really, why shouldn't you?
Also I'd give you all of my waffles if I had any. XD ♥
Of course you're pretty, and of course you're deserving of a pretty partner. If anyone tells you otherwise, kick their ass.
And hey, you know, we are hardwired for the attractive. Whether it's us being vain or shallow, or evolution automatically having us notice the more appealing man or woman, it still happens, and rational people aren't going to fault you for it.
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On the other hand, have you ever been incredibly attracted to someone who, objectively, wasn't even that hot, or hot at all, but whatever man, you liked them anyway for whatever reason, and your friend were all 'oh come s/he's ugly, dude!' and so on?
I think it's not so much what you have, it's what you do with it. And you're already starting with some pretty damn hot raw material, so, woman, it's definitely a good idea to get rid of those kind of useless, negative thoughts. Those are for losers and you aren't one.
I CAN'T BE ASSED TO LOG INTO MY PERSONAL ACCCOUNT WHATEVER LOVE ME
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On the other hand, have you ever been incredibly attracted to someone who, objectively, wasn't even that hot, or hot at all, but whatever man, you liked them anyway for whatever reason, and your friend were all 'oh come s/he's ugly, dude!' and so on?
Yes. My ex-boyfriend was this, according to my friends, but I personally thought he was super-hot and as such, fitted better with someone hotter than me. BUT I WAS SEVENTEEN, SO.
Either way - yeah. This will not be a year for losers!
I will love you, and Soi Fong, why not.
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YEAH SEE. Like in high school I had this crush for this guy, and everyone told me I was blind or something. He had long black greasy hair he never washed, and he was way too thin and had no butt at all, and he had long eyelashes like a girl and a long, thin face and nose and ETC ETC. My point being-- he was mad-popular with girls, I think he didn't go a month without getting laid (I know I would have gladly offered myself if that happened). He had self-confidence to sell :F I never got to hit that BUT I LEARNED A LIFE LESSON!! /rambles on
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You had a crush on Snape. A Snape from another dimension where he gets laid.
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I like your maths, Ruxi. And yeah, I'm not saying that they're mutually exclusive. I've met people that are attractive physically, but there's nothing but unsharpened crayons in their brains; and they did nothing for me. I think I do feel that ping of interest when there's interesting conversation, more than if there's a pretty face to stare at - which is why I will never be into the picking-up-in-bars scene.
But either way, this is more about me saying 'fuck you world I am so good enough'. :)
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It means I'm going to buy a paid and play with icons.
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Or maybe that's just my way of justifying that I'm so vain in my choice of partners XD
Either way, I had a point to this. Cella, don't be too hard on yourself for caring about looks when you look for someone. Why shouldn't you have the prettiest in the bunch of possible boyfriends/girlfriends? You're one of the prettiest girls I know, so really, why shouldn't you?
Also I'd give you all of my waffles if I had any. XD ♥
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Your point is valid and your waffles are belong to me now.
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And hey, you know, we are hardwired for the attractive. Whether it's us being vain or shallow, or evolution automatically having us notice the more appealing man or woman, it still happens, and rational people aren't going to fault you for it.
So go get 'em.
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