Hey nicole. I know we haven't spoke in a while, but I can honestly say I have been where you are exactly. I've told you how me and chris broke up for 3 MONTHS! It was hard on me too and I tried to feel things for other people or tried to spend all my time with friends but it didn't work either. The pain won't go away, but I can say that we got back together and I see you guys getting back together too. It may take some time but it will all fall back into place. Trust me when two people are meant to be, nothing can stop that. I know it is possible because today is surprisingly Chris and I's 3 year anniversary and I know, I'll read your blog about 2 years from now and you WILL be saying how perfect your relationship with him is at that moment. Give it time, and no matter what anyone says it is okay to hurt and cry because that only leads to joy and laughter. <3 Atir.
is it bad that i only check lj to see if youve posted, because when you post it is the only time i know anything about what is going on in your life. im sorry things are the way they are for you right now, i still love you and part of me understands. feel better dear.
the exact same thing happened to me last may. 2 years and 1 month we were together. i was miserable and heart broken, but in the end i am happy because i wouldn't of gotten the best two friendships i have ever had that resulted from my breakup. it made me a more independent person and i got two wonderful people who i love to death, who are real. all he got was an i am better than you attitude and fake friends. karma is a bitch too remember that. but hey if you are meant to be then you will be. if not, then that means there is someone else who is better. and only time will make you feel better. you will be fine. =]
me and my love just broke up ive been a mess as well keeping busy busy busy but the moment you sit down your mind starts to wander i am SO SORRY nicole. no one deserves this pain i really hope your ok. i know were not as close anymore as id like to be but you can call me or text me anytime you want. because we used to be such great friends i will always be there for you whether you like it or not!
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<3 Atir.
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his karma has nothing to worry about.
he was great.
still is.
and he did nothing wrong.
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ive been a mess as well
keeping busy busy busy
but the moment you sit down your mind starts to wander
i am SO SORRY nicole. no one deserves this pain
i really hope your ok.
i know were not as close anymore as id like to be
but you can call me or text me anytime you want.
because we used to be such great friends i will always be there for you
whether you like it or not!
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