Okay, a lot of you added me to read the further adventures of Shay, the monster that has clocked over 2,000 comments. Well, the story, I think, came to a close today. I was called at 7:24 am from Chandler Hospital, and well, she was found dead this morning before the 7:00 am shift. She wasn't breathing, and she had pilfered food wrappers around
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I know you might say that she wasn't someone you considered a friend exactly at the end, but still, you were friends at one time, and for quite a while, and I know... friendly concern doesn't just go away. There are plenty of folks in my life who, by all rights, I should not care about, but do, and if I heard one of them was dead, well, it'd affect me, too. Not in a terrible way or anything, but I'd be sad.
I hope you get to talk with her family. And yeah, it will be a hard message to give, but... you'll find the right words. I believe you're a caring person, and the right words seem to come natural when you care.
And I know her family will be glad someone was there and trying to help her at the end. Don't blame yourself; you did the best by her that you could (which happened to be a lot), and sometimes there are some folks you just can't help. It's as if they're bound and determined to self-destruct, no matter how much help you offer.
*soft hug, if you want one*
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I just got back from a funeral, myself. Strange days.
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it is very kind of you to have helped her.
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