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[sheenaqotj]

I've been in Charleston, SC celebrating my cousin's wedding. After my sister and me, he is the oldest of the cousins

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[skydiamonde]

*hug*

I'm the same way with being antsy to have kids. And I'm sure I want more than one. And preferably all before I hit the cliff where more problems occur. I've known for the past few years now that while I would avoid having a baby without planning for it, if I had an accident, I would keep it. Because it would kill me if I aborted a child then found out later in life that I couldn't have any. Like you, I've also thought about solo-ing it (in a planned manner). I've thought about just marrying an ex who was willing to have me but I wasn't at the time, but maybe those faults are as important as the good things we had that would make it so we could raise a family together. I've thought about finding a match who would be a good partner in life, one who had similar values and wanted the same things as me, even if we didn't have any romantic chemistry. After all, if I watched the father of my children play with them and love them and work hard with me to create the life that we both want, isn't that enough to make my heart melt and

[bhudson]

A year ago, we were 34 and annoyed at bring single. This year at the same BBQ, we each brought a significant other... YMMV, but there's still hope!

[grouchyoldcoot]

I can't offer relationship advice because I suck at it, but freezing some eggs might let you relax a little.