what the F#*K?!

[shaman]

So I talked to Juli briefly tonight after not talkin' for a month. At some point she tells me that she's gettin' married to the fella she started seein' in May. She met him not even two months after we broke up, and she's known him for two months and now they're engaged to be married on Halloween. What the F? The thing is that everythin' went

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((((Paul)))) -that is a hug in case my heiroglyphics are meaningless.

[wynsong]

It is very painful to not be chosen. Just take each moment as it comes, and remember to breathe.
Venting is good by the way...when emotions come up, let them come up and observe them. It helps with the healing to let them have their moment...and then to let them go. Each time they come back, their impact isn't so devastating.

Munay

[ilexcassine]

Well, ugh. I've never gotten the rush to marry thing. At all. That sucks. (weird- I just realized that none of my exs have gotten married, how strange)

[silentknell]

Sorry to hear about that. Call me if you want to talk.

[lunawares]

cruddy news. i like wynsong's suggestion though. don't let it eat you up--you'll find someone who'll make you so much happier than her, i'm sure of it.

[shaman]

thanks. i think i'm learnin' to be just happy in general, whether with or without someone.