*hugs* Honestly, Ki, I don't think you did anything wrong at all. This is your journal for goodness' sakes, therefore your only outlet--if you can't vent or stress of whine on this, where can you? But I understand that there ARE some people out there who might be a bit more sensitive than others, but still... I mean, you were obviously down before, getting on your case isn't exactly helping matters.
*hugs again* I'm glad you're done and good with that paper. Feel better, ne? ♥♥♥
I do feel better! And thank you for your support both now and last night. I think I need to be more careful what I say, but I'm still not going to hold back on saying it if it needs to be said.
After all, you can't get into a thumping good argument with a journal hidden under your mattress, can you? *grins* Even if I lost out on most of the argument last night...
yay for paper being done! And Ki... I think jlee is very right in what she says in the comment above this one. And anyway, a big part of having the trust in peeps to let them see a locked entry, or even letting them know you have an lj, is that it is just you. and it is just your thoughts and worries sometimes. and maybe sometimes it is just you realizing something, and they are priveleged to get to watch you do it - and even more so to throw their tuppence in. whatever that tuppence might be.
hope the day goes well. sorry i wasn't around to help you last night.
*hugs* It's okay. Last night really was me just whining and then heading off to work on my paper, and popping in at random times to be mildly astonished and/or pleased. I'm just sorry that some people were offended by what was only meant as an attack on my personal flaws. But as you can see, I didn't take it down, so I'm not that sorry!
I thought it was more a case of see what happens when Ki gets tired and grouchy? But you weren't there to cheer me up, you're right, it's all YOUR fault...
I was really thinking last night that I need a 'hugs' icon (Gai and Lee, to blind my viewers? Iruka and Konohamaru, to overwhelm with sad!fluff?) but the other sounds appealing too. ;D
Well, I think I've grown a great deal in the past few years in being able to see both sides of an argument, so of course I couldn't brush off the negative comments; they were true, too. I was whiny, but sometimes people get like that. I'm just glad that I didn't manage to alienate everyone and that I have great friends like you who can tell me I'm being kind of a brat but still love me anyway.
*hugs* I'll be off babysitting my 7-month-old niece most of the day, so I hope it's a good one too!
Your comments are never unwanted, bite. *loves* Thank you for what you said; I think it's something I've been needing to hear. I've grown a lot over the past couple of years but there's still a lot of growing I need to do, and it's kind of a hard process. But I'm glad I've got friends to help me through.
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*hugs again* I'm glad you're done and good with that paper. Feel better, ne? ♥♥♥
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After all, you can't get into a thumping good argument with a journal hidden under your mattress, can you? *grins* Even if I lost out on most of the argument last night...
*hugs*
-Ki
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hope the day goes well. sorry i wasn't around to help you last night.
man. see what happens when i go to bed?
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I thought it was more a case of see what happens when Ki gets tired and grouchy? But you weren't there to cheer me up, you're right, it's all YOUR fault...
*loves*
-Ki
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Maybe you should get a 'stfu kthnx <3' icon for days (nights?) like this.
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I was really thinking last night that I need a 'hugs' icon (Gai and Lee, to blind my viewers? Iruka and Konohamaru, to overwhelm with sad!fluff?) but the other sounds appealing too. ;D
-Ki
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*hugs* I'll be off babysitting my 7-month-old niece most of the day, so I hope it's a good one too!
-Ki
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*hugs*
-Ki
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