aaaaaand thats a wrap.

[serena_snape]

im so sorry for the Bio Mom wank spam. im trying to cut them. :P this is the last one unless she manages to do something exceptionally infuriating. which, she's still in contact with some members of her family, so in a small amount she could. but whatever.

Comments

[juniper_mermaid]

eyeballs...bleeding...brain...imploding...
what a piece of work.good riddance to bad rubbish.

[moonlightgryph]

Okay, this might be a minor "bitch" in the whole scheme of things but I ABHORE how she writes. I'm guessing she's trying to sound proper and intelligent, but lacks the basic knowledge of when and how to end a sentence? Using language is useless without grammar making it readable and ultimately, makes her sound like more of an idiot. It certainly doesn't strengthen her case

[serena_snape]

i dont usually dog people for grammar because i know that i suck at it sometimes too. but with that said, i completely agree with you. to me, it sounds like she's trying to sound Intelligent, but ends up sounding pretentious.

[catrin_santiago]

I hate to be the one dissenting voice here but it doesn't sound like your mum is completely 'well' so to speak and it's probably not the best tactic to take with her.

I do understand what it's like, my father pulled all kinds of crap with me from dragging me out of a bathroom by my hair, to nearly wrapping the car we were in around a tree because I'd dared to disagree with him, to kicking me out and disowning me (and much much more). However he wasn't and isn't completely well. I did a lot of hating, tried to hurt him back and spent a lot of time upset and really it did me no favours. Honestly, your replies remind me of me when I was trying to hurt my dad back and pulling the lowest blows to do so. There's no attempt to try and resolve anything. This is just going to hurt you more in the long run. You'll never be great friends but like it or not, you're family - frith can be kept. Breaking frith over something like facebook access just seems a bit weird.

[serena_snape]

the thing is, honestly, there is no Frith with her. She has never been a mother to me. she left when i was 3 and didnt show back up until i was 16. i'm a strong believer that it takes more than blood to be kin.

While i will admit i did overreact to her facebook limitations, think of it as the straw that broke the camels back. i know she isn't 'well' and i have tried a million times, being nice those million times, to help her improve herself. instead, she seems convinced that the world is against her and she's the only one thats right. which must be genetic, because my brother is the same way. (and i'll admit that i have to fight off that too.) ;)

but honestly, im tired of it. i really am. i'm tired of being a doormat for the sake of one day, maybe far in the future that she will get help and get better. i didn't want this to happen. yes the last few days ive been vindictive. it takes a lot to upset me, but she managed to piss me off.

[juniper_mermaid]

i respectfully disagree,not that Tanja's not more than able to speak for herself.while all of this may be a side effect of her mother being unwell,it doesn't excuse all the havoc she's wreaked.And if it all comes down to her being in need of mental help,the onus is on her to get it instead of continuing to damage people around her.It's wonderful that you've been able to find Frith with your father,but Tanja has given her mother multiple opportunities over the years and it's Judy who cannot commit to keeping Frith

[serena_snape]

actually, if the pressure is on anyone to ensure Judy gets the help she needs, it's her husband. he sees her every day and, provided he's even half as intelligent as he seems, should be able to recognize when there's a mental health issue.
but you never know. i'm pretty sure i'm crazy but john insists i'm not. XD