I have had to do it too. Its painful, but I am always better off without that person in my life. I just had to make that decision recently about the bf I was dating, matter of fact. He wasnt taking care of his health, wasnt prioritizing correctly and it was hurting him as a result, wasnt motivated to get anywhere although he constantly talked about how he would eventually do this or that. So much more went into the decision but I finally just told him I had had enough. Whew! I feel lighter already!
Be strong, follow your heart and make the decision you know is best for you.
It's harsh sometimes and it sucks but that doesn't mean it wasn't worth it in the end. Sometimes breaking off those toxic friendships are the catalyst to the other person opening their eyes and realizing what is happening and to make a change in their life so that hopefully you can come back to the table and re-spark that friendship.
Sometimes however, that isn't how it plays out and there are elements of regret, but end the end you have to look out for you, right? :) <3
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Be strong, follow your heart and make the decision you know is best for you.
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Sometimes however, that isn't how it plays out and there are elements of regret, but end the end you have to look out for you, right? :) <3
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