Truly appreciate the support and vote of confidence, Astin.
Funny how you were so very encouraging of Viggo and Miranda just fucking and getting it over with months ago before they got together. And let's not forget how you supportive you were of our little odd family.
I also said about Viggo and Mirry that I didn't think that would work in the long run either. But there was a BABY involved! A CHILD!! So, YES! I hoped that he would be able to bring her home.. for the baby's sake! Jesus, Orli, you know how I feel about stuff liket hat.
I'm not suggesting that you're not attracted to Marton. But 'in love'? I DO have confidence in you, Orli. I'm confident that when you made your committment to Viggo.. you were making it to the one true love in your life.
And anything else is... less than that. Marton is a great guy. Worthy of love. But what you'll end up with is a broken heart. I'm not mad.. and I don't see ANYONE here as wrong. I said how I feel. I feel sad because people I love are going to be hurt by all of this.
No one will pay any attention to me anyway.. so why does it matter? *sigh*
Fuck! Just ignore me. I posted it here rather than in the community because it's just what *I* think. Ignore me!
Orli NEVER said he loves me *shakes head* I should just leave altogether so there are no further disruptions related to me *looks at sleeping Orli* But I dont want to.
Did I SAY Orli said he loved you? No. I didn't. I said that 4 people I care about very much are headed for broken hearts and that it deeply saddnes me.
Okay, maybe I'm just plain ignorant, but jesus christ, you really believe that it has no consequences, fucking around with people? I know about fuck buddies, and I know enough to know it rarely, if ever, works. Get real, guys: Having sex with someone makes some kind of emotional bond too, no matter how small it may be.
It's matter of commitment, too. When a person says they're together, or takes vows, or whatever, that kinda obligated that person to at least take their partner into consideration before they go sleeping around, doesn't it?
*goes to work out and take a walk with Sean, 'cause otherwise I'll go mental*
And there's even more at stake when there's kids involved. Trust me. I know. And I've seen the effect.
So please, guys, I'm not saying I can dictate what people want to do--although for God's sake, and your own, if you have multiple partners, at least protect yourselves physically; I learned that much from Ian--but PLEASE remember the ripple effect on everyone around you, friends included. That's all I ask.
Astin... *sighs* I'm sipping on my coffee and about to head out on our excursion, so I don't really have the time to give you a huge coherent reply
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Truly appreciate the support and vote of confidence, Astin.
Funny how you were so very encouraging of Viggo and Miranda just fucking and getting it over with months ago before they got together. And let's not forget how you supportive you were of our little odd family.
Revenge, huh?
Thanks for that. Yeah.
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I also said about Viggo and Mirry that I didn't think that would work in the long run either. But there was a BABY involved! A CHILD!! So, YES! I hoped that he would be able to bring her home.. for the baby's sake! Jesus, Orli, you know how I feel about stuff liket hat.
I'm not suggesting that you're not attracted to Marton. But 'in love'? I DO have confidence in you, Orli. I'm confident that when you made your committment to Viggo.. you were making it to the one true love in your life.
And anything else is... less than that. Marton is a great guy. Worthy of love. But what you'll end up with is a broken heart. I'm not mad.. and I don't see ANYONE here as wrong. I said how I feel. I feel sad because people I love are going to be hurt by all of this.
No one will pay any attention to me anyway.. so why does it matter? *sigh*
Fuck! Just ignore me. I posted it here rather than in the community because it's just what *I* think. Ignore me!
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Did I SAY Orli said he loved you? No. I didn't. I said that 4 people I care about very much are headed for broken hearts and that it deeply saddnes me.
I said that. I mean that. I stand by that.
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It's matter of commitment, too. When a person says they're together, or takes vows, or whatever, that kinda obligated that person to at least take their partner into consideration before they go sleeping around, doesn't it?
*goes to work out and take a walk with Sean, 'cause otherwise I'll go mental*
And there's even more at stake when there's kids involved. Trust me. I know. And I've seen the effect.
So please, guys, I'm not saying I can dictate what people want to do--although for God's sake, and your own, if you have multiple partners, at least protect yourselves physically; I learned that much from Ian--but PLEASE remember the ripple effect on everyone around you, friends included. That's all I ask.
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Don't get upset about it. They have to do what they have to do I guess.
*sighs and holds my Elijah tight*
Thank god I've got you.
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I won't argue while you're gone. I'm not going to talk to anyone.
I'm too depressed. It's not like this is the first time we've been through this stuff, Vigs.
Like I said. I'm done talking. I shouldn't have said anything in the first place. I'm stupid. I worry too much.
Ignore me.
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