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no secret that I spend a lot of time thinking about fanfic. (And those links are just "fanfic as a general concept"; they don't touch on my frequent crankiness about the concept of the Mary Sue, or connect to any of my actual fanfic.) I think fanfic is a hugely important part of the way we interact with stories as a society, and that it's
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Wonderful post, thank you from the bottom of my fangirl heart.
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It feels like it devalues any relationship that does not involve sex, and considering I had my first crush worth mentioning when I was 25, and 6 years later still am not convinced sex is something I want, for me personally it's the opposite of better representation, but telling me "you can never be close to anyone, because a that must involve sex".
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But at the same time, much of my point was that a lot of fanfic is not about sex. You can find enormous amounts of non-sexual fanfic. The existence of fanfic that includes sex does not invalidate or wipe away that fic, and any good archive will have good tags that tell you when it's safe to read.
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The story rarely if ever talked about their actual sexual experiences, because within the third chapter of this very, very long fic, Casey had been diagnosed with aplastic anemia, which is a lovely little often-fatal disease involving chemotherapy just like cancer does, and Dan was left to a) support his partner through this crap, b) deal with homophobia both at work and outside of work, and c) deal with the very real possibility that he would lose his partner through an early, ugly death.
The fact that they were in a male-male relationship did not mean that every scene was about sex. Far from it. It was about relationship. And it broke my heart, as a good tragedy ought to do.
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I've been writing fanfic now for almost a decade (sixty-odd works on AO3 to date), and very little of my material is focused on sex. (Okay, there's one mildly explicit ficlet, but that was a response to a challenge, and I did tag it as such.] I write partly to flex my creative muscles, occasionally as an outlet for my frustrations when the creators get something wrong (see Seanan above), and not least because I'm attempting to satisfy someone's "Oliver Twist" impulse ("Please, Sir, may I have some more?"). Sometimes the someone is me; often, though, it's someone on the other end of a fic exchange. One of my entry points into fanfic was via Yuletide, which has generated a lot of extremely good stories since its inception. And yes, a few really weird ones, too, but those are usually pretty well labeled. "Slave Bear of Care-A-Lot" is pretty much exactly what the title advertises (definitely NSFW), and if you click through to read it (note that it's only visible to signed-in AO3 members nowadays), you deserve what you get ( ... )
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<3
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Also, color me most unhappy with that aspect of the Warehouse-13 finale.
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You're already going off the air. If you didn't want to make your female lead a lesbian (despite her clearly having been played as bisexual, at minimum), and you can't lock down H.G. because her actress is on Defiance now, what better time to have them have the first lesbian wedding in a SyFy show? YOU HAD NOTHING TO LOSE.
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