Surprise! It's Divorce!

[seams_unusual]

 Non-contested, we're both pretty happy about it.  
No fighting.  No weirdness.  
I have a lot of catching up to do in my explanation.

Comments

[aprilstarchild]

HOLY SHIT LADY. I definitely do not see you often enough.

I'm Not A Professional (tm) but I don't think you have BPD. You don't seem to have that on/off "I love you or I hate you" thing going on.

But again: I'm Not A Professional (tm)

What did you do at the old folks' home? I know you're not a CNA...

Where are you living?

Can we start a lolita brand? (okay, mostly kidding there....maybe.)

What are you doing tomorrow evening? Wanna come over and hang out and talk talk talk?

Yes!

[seams_unusual]

I know we need to see each other more! At least I will be moving close by! I will be rooming with Feygon and Maeb (Rick and Danielle)
I do not think I have BPD, either, but I have found some of the "coping mechanisms" helpful.
I was a server in the Dining Room. Loved it. Pay sucks, shitty insurance, but I loved it.
You know that I would love to start a Lolita brand as a sub of Seams-Unusual... but I haven't got a name. Still have mixed feelings about "Seams-Innocent". Right now, I'm trying to focus on the little things: what MY vision really consists of. So far, its just the bloomers and the bustle belts...
I leave my therapist at 4PM tomorrow. That's on Broadway and like, 14th on the East Side. Should I pick you up somewhere so that I don't beat you home? Wait. Wait I can't do that I will have NO PLACE to stash your bike because I will have Stuff in the Back of My Car...

Re: Yes!

[aprilstarchild]

My school is a five-minute walk from my house, so no worries! I'll get to my house before you will.

I figured we'd walk up to Mt. Tabor (walking while talking = awesome) and then make dinner at my place.

[seams_unusual]

Thanks!

[aprilstarchild]

In totally unrelated news:
http://www.babyssb.co.jp/reserve/107P209.html

OH MY GOD I love the way it laces up on the sides, with the sheer stuff.

[seams_unusual]

Alice and The Pirates always makes my mouth water...

[aprilstarchild]

Oh god, me too.

[sillygoosegirl]

*Hugs*

I'm totally shocked, and yet not entirely surprised either. I am, and really always have been, sorry that I've not spent more time with you over the years. But I've always been at such a loss as to how to understand the world you came from. I always thought it was what you wanted. A year or two ago or something (before you found me again on the internet), I found a long letter from you dated early-mid 2005 that had been hand delivered to me shortly before my wedding and was misplaced and never read back then. I don't remember what was in it except that you sounded so very unhappy and confused, and I was very sad I had been unable to respond at the time. But I assumed that surely things had gotten better. Feel free to give me a call if you want to talk. (503) 482-7250.

[seams_unusual]

That's so strange... I have no memory of said letter..!
I would really love to play catch up sometime. Your presence was a huge and positive part of my childhood and I miss you.

[medievallass]

*Hugs* This is a really well written journal entry my friend. It really explains everything. Journals are great for that. I must admit when I first heard the news the soppy romantic in was very sad, but seeing you both there and how it was clear you had made a decision. I knew that it was the right decision for both of you. Thank-you for seeking me out the other day. I was really honored it felt wonderful to actually help another person, since going to college full time just makes me feel like I take. You are so cool, everything will be alright. *hugs*

Love ya, Hayley ^_^

[seams_unusual]

Thanks for being there! :-)