There are times, like now, when I hate him. I hate him with the heat of a thousand suns and I wish... god, I wish very bad things happen to him, like he spills coffee all over his shirt in his way to work
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The main thing is (as an out sider looking in). How does Jose act towards you when you're together?.(I'm not talking sex here).Mo for what it's worth is that he loves you very much.
Has he a lot of friends where he is working?. If not ,he must really feel insecure and unloved with no special person(YOU!!)to care about him. One thing I did pick up on from your conversation,he is not a man that would cheat on you.
I'm trying to offer you a bit of comfort. Sorry if I've not managed too well. I'm always here if you need to rant...Hugs XD
He's always nice with me, always says, "darling" and stuff like that. I know I love him, but sometimes... you know? I really want to strangle him? *g*
He has friends, but of course it doesn't even come close to his family and his college friends from here. It's hard for both of us, but sometimes he makes me feel like he's the only one who had to give something up, and I don't think that's fair.
Thanks for the words of comfort, babe. They are always nice to hear. *huggles* Thanks!!!!
Hi! I don't know you, but saw your name on a community blog and it seemed similar to a friend of mine, and upon checking out your blog I quickly realized you were not this friend of mine, but ... I still read a bit because the entries were interesting.
The only reason why I am commenting on your post is because I want to recommend a book to you. It's called "The Seven Principles of Making Marriage Work" - and while it's geared towards married couples, the principles in it are really practical and useful in understanding why you have tension in a lot of types of relationships; I actually let my mom borrow it and discussed some of it with her to address some of the fights that we have.
But... seriously. Go check it out from the library. I just wanted to comment on the chance that this read (one that really helped me) could help you and your relationship.
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Has he a lot of friends where he is working?. If not ,he must really feel insecure and unloved with no special person(YOU!!)to care about him.
One thing I did pick up on from your conversation,he is not a man that would cheat on you.
I'm trying to offer you a bit of comfort. Sorry if I've not managed too well.
I'm always here if you need to rant...Hugs XD
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He has friends, but of course it doesn't even come close to his family and his college friends from here. It's hard for both of us, but sometimes he makes me feel like he's the only one who had to give something up, and I don't think that's fair.
Thanks for the words of comfort, babe. They are always nice to hear. *huggles* Thanks!!!!
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The only reason why I am commenting on your post is because I want to recommend a book to you. It's called "The Seven Principles of Making Marriage Work" - and while it's geared towards married couples, the principles in it are really practical and useful in understanding why you have tension in a lot of types of relationships; I actually let my mom borrow it and discussed some of it with her to address some of the fights that we have.
But... seriously. Go check it out from the library. I just wanted to comment on the chance that this read (one that really helped me) could help you and your relationship.
Have a great day!!
-M
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