That was pretty harsh. I agree, I thought it was more informative rather than attacking anyone or trying to blame.
If they decide that thats how they want to handle it, well thats their decision. I learned a long time ago that you can't be responsible for the decisions your folks chose to make.
At any rate, if everything goes down the shit hole and they try to say something along the lines of 'why didn't you do something' you can always say that you did - you told them and that its not necessarily your responsibility. You are his sister, not his parents.
And if he doesn't want help, well you can't make him accept it.
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i don't quite know what to say!
i thought the letter you wrote was informative and caring, without placing blame.
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that was me.
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If they decide that thats how they want to handle it, well thats their decision. I learned a long time ago that you can't be responsible for the decisions your folks chose to make.
At any rate, if everything goes down the shit hole and they try to say something along the lines of 'why didn't you do something' you can always say that you did - you told them and that its not necessarily your responsibility. You are his sister, not his parents.
And if he doesn't want help, well you can't make him accept it.
Good luck with how things go. :D
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